How do I ask a guy out via email?

Question

I met this guy last week, I know he likes me and want to ask him out. I only have his email address to get in touch, how do I ask him out without coming across as cheesy?

No I have not met him through the internet.
We met at a party.

Answer 1

You don't. Ask him out in person.

I would honestly think it was a joke if someone did that... I'd turn her down right away.

Answer 2

Here use this email template:

Dear xxxxx

It was nice meeting you last week. Will you go out with me?

Love xxxx

(sorry had to do that) seriously though just ask how he is and what he is up to. Then I am sure the right moment will come. Good luck!

Answer 3

If this is a guy from the internet that you've never met in person before, please meet in a public place (i.e. restaurant, street fair) where there are lots of people. Not a bad idea to have some friends in the vicinity as well.

It probably wouldn't be a bad idea to ask him to join you and your friends to go to a movie. That way it wouldn't sound too forward especially if he likes you only as a friend.

Answer 4

Meet him for LUNCH in the day time with lots of people around. Do not get in the car with him or be alone with him.
Just suggest a fav restaurant and go there. Have lunch and if you like him make arrangements to do it again. Do not be alone with someone you do not know.

Also, get other information about him first. Full name. Address. Telephone number. Work number. etc. Then give it to someone in case something happens to you.

Answer 5

If he hasn't gotten ahold of you by now, I would be thinking he isn't worth bothering about, BUT, if you are still wanting to date this guy, don't be shy. Being open about what you want isn't "cheesy." Best bet is to just meet for coffee and during that short visit, you will be able to tell if he is really your type. You should also be able to tell if he is interested or not.

Answer 6

awwwwwwwwwwww i've always wanted to do that but never had the guts. maybe u should say something along the lines of

dear.....................
you are a great friend and i really like you and being in your company. I'm going to ask this because i know that if i dont it will eat away at me. Do you think we could try being in a relationship together? It doesn't matter if you don't want to and i hope we can still be friends
love
.............................xx

Answer 7

I would just ask if he fancies having a drink sometime. Then you won't sound cheesy, although I have to say I feel a man should ask you out and if he doesn't, it's his loss and he's probably not worth it if you have to do the chasing....but that's just my opinion

Answer 8

Why would you do i through an e-mail? Unless of course he is an incredibly large nerd and does nothing but sit on the internet all day?

That is a rhetorical question, i dont really care.

Answer 9

Ok, so I think my favorite is; well, have you already asked him if he has a girlfriend? Because you both know that it's common knowledge that he DOESN'T have a girlfriend, then just talk to him a little over email; like a few more back and forth, and at one point just be like (actually, this one probably works in person better...) but be like:
'so... do you have a girlfriend?'
'no...'
'wanna have one? ;)'
that gist, but make it more obvious that you mean that YOU want to be his girlfriend, not just 'want one in general?' but like 'want it to be me?' kind of thing...
Just an idea... have fun!

Answer 10

well just say 2 him dat u have feelings 4 him him send it n wait for his reply if he says'me 2' the say summink like 'do ya wanna get 2 geva sumtime' n wait 2 c ur awnser...rememba if he says no then hez just another boi 2 add 2 u loved n forgotten list n move on!

hope this helps!