I am a ****** magnet. I can only seem to find jerks that, cheat, lie, steal, and treat me like crap. Are there any good guys in the NJ? If so where?
2007-07-26 00:57:02 · 11 answers · asked by cass_muffin 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
sure there still is and just so you know you may be trying too hard to find him
and Mr. right is not going to be the type to run after all women he probably be the one you never expected you probably already know him
take a min sit back and he will come
and most of all just enjoy your life for once and not just to do stuff for jerks just because remember your #1 then the rest will come or the best
2007-07-26 01:06:09 · answer #1 · answered by Aldoit 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry, I'm not in NJ...
But you're probably just looking in the wrong places. We do exist. It's the obnoxious, loud-mouth guys that give us a bad name. Try looking for a guy that's not in the spotlight all the time...
Then again, maybe you're like most other females and just find "bad boy" ******* attractive... You'll grow out of it eventually... I hope...
2007-07-26 01:00:26 · answer #2 · answered by bluedevil1642 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry that you have so much trouble with guys where you live. I live in the tri-valley in california, and i belive that its one of the safest, most integrated, non-racial, best place to find good wholesome people.
Sorry i dunno about NJ, try marine world? People who like animals can't be *******. Or drive up to conneticut, and find someone there. The good guys are always the ones that nobody ever wants to date, so maybe you've already met the right guy, but haven't given him any notice.
2007-07-26 01:38:46 · answer #3 · answered by Ryan L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I find most women are attracted to guys that are slightly *******. I've asked some of my women friends and I think it boils down to, a woman likes/enjoys the challenge of trying to 'fix' a man to become what she wants/desires. If you are solely basing your first impressions on someone based on how they look that might be one of the problems. I recommend trying to date someone that you normally wouldn't date, see how they treat you. Maybe even a friend if possible.
Good guys are out there, just look deeper :D
2007-07-26 01:03:22 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i am from NY originally and i'm a good guy. but those are hard to find in jersey baby. i think you are outta luck, time to move. maybe its time to find out what it is about you that attracts *******... something in you is liking it.
2007-07-26 00:59:52 · answer #5 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you are not the magnet but the ******.
Change yourself and others around you will change. It is all about YOU.
2007-07-26 00:59:30 · answer #6 · answered by holeeycow 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm a good respectable, honest, guy but I live in Baltimore.
2007-07-26 00:59:49 · answer #7 · answered by jeremy_goose 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try Guys from Pa. Like me...
2007-07-26 01:04:17 · answer #8 · answered by Stephen d 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know bout NJ but here is one in Dublin:)
2007-07-26 00:59:28 · answer #9 · answered by fydu : 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
easy come, easy go...
try and make them work for it and they will appreciate you more
2007-07-26 01:00:35 · answer #10 · answered by phate 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋