"your a great woman, and an even better lover LOL" what is with the LOL part. whqt doews he men by this. is he being sarcastic
2007-07-26 00:40:12 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
odds are he's being sarcastic.
2007-07-26 00:42:23 · answer #1 · answered by Gunner For Life! 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't read too much into what he's saying. Your instinct will kick in when he's not being sincere. You know the feeling; he says something and that huge red flag is waving over his head. He could have been using his sarcastic charms to say one thing, or he could have been nervous, or he could have been using a really vain attempt at misguided humor. Guys are a different breed of animal in the communications realm, so even though they think they know what they're saying, and might even believe it, it leaves us girls staring at them like a warped exhibit in the zoo. You know him better than the rest of us, so if he continues with the pseudo-sarcasm, tell him you're not finding it one bit amusing, or turn it around on him. He might like it, or he might just get the hint. Best of luck!!
2007-07-26 07:54:01 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think he meant anything bad by it, sounds like a great compliment! The LOL bit is probably there because he doesn't want you to be taking it really seriously and mulling it over, He meant what he said but not in a deep conversation type of way (if you understand that, sorry it's hard to explain!). Sounds like he's flirting a bit with you, woo good for you lol!
PS- see what i mean by my use of lol?
2007-07-26 07:53:40 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It means Laugh Out Loud and he's like trying to say that it was a joke the part he's said "and an even better lover"
2007-07-26 07:45:46 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would say that he doesn't know how you would react and has nothing else to say and he was trying to cover it up using LOL to draw your attention away from what he said. He doesn't know how you would react, I guess, or he could've been sarcastic but no guy should say LOL to a woman when talking seriously. Good luck.
2007-07-26 08:14:37 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It just translates like this.... You are a great woman and a great lover too. when he made the 2nd statement, his mind would have gone back to the instant where you made love, and thinkin of that would have made him so happy....
not as literally as laughin out loud
2007-07-26 07:48:02 · answer #6 · answered by ultimatum 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well he's either flirting with you or really messing with your head. It depends if its a kinda arrogant yet funny way he's flirting but if it seems that he sadi it in a harsh tone then he's just being sarcastic.
2007-07-26 07:52:38 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Originally the Lol is an abbreviation for Lolita, from a film some years ago.
It was first used on the Net to indicate that one is addressing a female, but has become such a nasty habit that it has lost all romantic meaning.
2007-07-26 07:47:08 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
this sounds to me that he likes you for the sex. Yes, you may be a great woman, but to say an even BETTER lover.. this sounds wierd.
lol... it may be a joke that you two may share.. or he may be joking around with you.
2007-07-26 07:43:18 · answer #9 · answered by Mami 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He means cancel the great woman part...he just likes you in bed....He said you were a great woman to throw you off....What are you doing for dinner tonight?
2007-07-26 07:46:47 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
he is being sarcastic as lol means lots of laughs
2007-07-26 07:44:47 · answer #11 · answered by samanthaw 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋