I am a guy in my late 20s and I love reading a good romance novel. I really like Danielle Steel's novels! Should I keep this a secret from girls? Would it turn you off a guy if you came over to his house and saw that he had a book case filled with romance fiction?
I am not gay, I just have a rather sensitive/emotional side. Should I hide that from a woman and pretend I like only doing guy sort of things?
2007-07-26 00:05:04 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i would love to meet a guy who reads romance fiction...that means the guy is really very creative indeed, when it might come to romance!!
but then again, girls are all different with different tastes and opinions...
rest assured, u've got a green signal from ME atleast!! ;)
tc... keep smiling always!:)
2007-07-26 00:10:47 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Yes I would. I see nothing wrong with you liking romance novels. Don't keep it a secret when dating a girl you like. It's nothing to be ashamed about. You said your not gay. So there is nothing for you to prove. Don't feel the need to fake liking sports or things you think a guy should like. Be yourself. That way. When you meet the right girl for you. When she tells you she loves you. You will know she loves you and not the guy you pretended to be.
2007-07-26 00:22:38 · answer #2 · answered by ? 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely Honey! Hell no it wouldn't turn me off and even if you were bisexy or gay, of course, even if you were gay, that wouldn't make a s h i t bit of difference because, well, I will say, sensitive men, who appreciate and let the woman or man know they love them is key. All we need to leave this world with is LOVE and KNOWLEDGE and all of that fits perfectly into the eternal page. Sensitive men are hard to come by in this day and age because it seems like most folks feel like they have to live up to some sort of or status quo (I know I didn't spell that right) without realizing that is not important to anyone except the hearts that own the feelings. Feelings are valid and if some feel it is wrong to love all, all across the board, then they are entitiled to those feelings and I, for one, can accept all of them, but I will stand my ground and defend my beliefs if I have been attacked about the way I feel about about Love (and it doesn't always mean sex...maybe sometimes...but to me that is Love tooo regardless of gender or creed )or any of my loved ones or anyone on here being attacked for their beliefs or their right to express their beliefs in any way. All of you have a lovely day and please believe me, what is is important is spirituality, not religion. Love whomever you so choose and know that is all our creator wanted for us was to LOVE each other and leave this place with that Love firmly placed in our hearts. Love comes from the heart, not from the genitals. .....Love you all...Sheri......
2007-07-26 01:43:09 · answer #3 · answered by sherijgriggs 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not hid that from women! Because then you wouldn't be being yourself, and she wouldn't really be falling for you, she'd be falling for what you're pretending to be. I feel that as long as a guy is genuine, and is true to himself, there really isn't a problem. (Unless of course it's like along the lines of drinking, smoking, robbing, etc...)
I would certainly date a guy who is into romance novels, as long as he doesn't talk about them 24/7. But once in a while is nice!
2007-07-26 06:48:00 · answer #4 · answered by Kiara 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No way, you be yourself. Its better than pretending to be a guy whos tough and the girl only finding out later. I wouldnt find it a turn off at all. it shows a sensitive side to you. A guy once told me he has cried over a sad movie before. I thought it was adorable he admitted that to me and it showed me that he understood feelings (unlike some guys who think they should pretend they dont know how to feel soft to attract a girl!). it shows you have passion and any bucks you'd learn something from reading those books and the future girl will be swept off her feet like some girls like to be. Be yourself and come over my way, I'll have ya :-p !!!
2007-07-26 00:15:17 · answer #5 · answered by Ava G 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well it wouldn't be something to say on a first date, but don't hide it away. When you meet a girl just tell her you have a sensitive side. If the relationship gets more serious (but not too late) you can tell her. Then you won't be hiding it, just delaying. If I knew a guy and he told me that I wouldn't mind, but if he told me that straight away I might think he is a little weird and it might take a bit longer for me to get to know him.
2007-07-26 00:11:59 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Bro, I think you can get get away with it and not seem to sensitive if you'd explain to her in some way that you only read em so you can be a better lover yourself. I thought of reading them myself. They do not become bestsellers for no reason. There must be tons of romantic ideas in there that would really sweep a woman off her feet.
2007-07-26 00:14:25 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Yes no doubt I will sure date a guy that reads romance fiction, I find it very interesting myself.
2007-07-26 00:20:44 · answer #8 · answered by Golden Girl 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, I would. Cos you'd probably know how to be romantic, and all girls like a bit of romance. So yeah.
2007-07-26 00:16:02 · answer #9 · answered by bluegirl6 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i would wonder if you were gay but in the end sorry i think i would think of you more of a friend if we had that much in common sorry
maybe lay off the books for a bit and start watchin foot ball till ya find a good girl that understands good luck!
2007-07-26 00:13:07 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋