looking for Liz who answered ? about juevenile & custody?

Question

Prior to our seperation we both had very good, high paying jobs but due to my son having disabilities I had to stop working
and then dad got laid off. Then all the more problems came up
so we seperated and now back at our parents. You shouldnt assume that all people like going back to thier parents but I am lucky that I can. I didnt just sit around pumping out babies. Hopefully one of those real life situations wont happen to you, and then eventually that would make you have to leave your home. Remember things like this happen all the time to people, one day they are living in a beautiful home, with nice cars, and plenty of food and clothing. Then one day it could all be gone. You have no clue about my situations so please dont judge me and think that I was not responsible. I do work very hard but with all my medical expenses it's hard to get a head.

Answer 1

Don't take to heart anything posted on this site. Some people simply don't care what they write. You have had a hard time of it but things will change for the better, I am sure. Be very thankful you have caring and sharing parents because a lot of people don't. It is difficult raising a disabled child but they can also be very rewarding. Good luck..

Answer 2

Life is not always fair. Havent read your story but agree with you. Moving back home out of necessity is not always a choice that any of us would want but sometimes circumstances leaves us no choice. Many people on here have been pretty lucky and never faces a life altering situation ad are way too eager to give advice where they have no business going. It sounds like you are truly trying to do the best you can under the circumstances and no one should ever judge you for doing what you have to do but should back you up for at least trying which is probably more than most would do in your shoes. Dont let one bad apple ruin your day,there are alot of us that would applaud you and yours, and like you said at least you have some place to go. Dont take the majority of the answers you get on here too serious as most have no idea what theyre talking about. Good luck