We are a lesbian couple been together three years and I think her desire for me has faded off, She also works with this woman who is also gay and is saying stuff like so and so said this like all the time... Should I supect them two to be cheating.
2007-07-25 20:16:54 · 7 answers · asked by krystinah 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Well, This is my first relationship with a woman, I mean I have been with other women but never a relationship. She has never really communicated well, but now its like she has locked herself down and everything isn't adding up. I'm scared I love her so much.
2007-07-25 20:33:39 · update #1
If you've ever seen any of the Madea plays here is memorable line from one of them:
(Diana: How can you tell if your man is cheating?)
Madea: You think your man is cheating?
(Diana: Yes I do!)
Madea: That's how you can tell!
Just little things is how you can tell..don't ASSUME sh*t though..cause assuming is gon get you in trouble...if you've been noticing that her eyes are starting to wander a lot...maybe comin home later than the usual...if she HASNT touched you in a while and she still walkin around all happy..it aint because jesus don spread his love to her..somebody else don did that..don't go jumping stupid though just cause of that, you can't go assumin like i said. If things really start to go crazy though, and you really jus stop trusting her and ish///Important things to go through: cell phone...car..check pockets of her pants...sh*t tail her one day if you got to...i mean i know this sounds a little bit like im turning you into an investigator and stuff but i mean, it's better than you walkin around like theres nothin wrong when you gettin played the whole time.
Before go into all this though..maybe you should try and have a one on one coversation with her...ask why she's been actin funny lately.
2007-07-25 20:38:41 · answer #1 · answered by Keep It Mellow 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
aww i felt like crying when i read this i dont know why..my biggest fear is someone that i love to cheat on me...id really hate that...i really hope that she isnt and i really dont know what to tell you, i guess if your allready wondering and if things arent the same like they used to be then maybe something is going on but i think if there were somefing going on between ur gf and that woman that she works with she woudnt even tell u about her in the first place coz she'd feel guilty to talk about it...i dont know...investigate...i know i would...
good luck and all the best..hope things work out
2007-07-26 03:53:37 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not necessarily. I think you two need to talk...just because this is bothering you. Sex in a long term relationship waxes and wanes...it's not as intense as at the beginning....but that doesn't mean she's cheating on you.
2007-07-26 03:20:47 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunatley you do tend to talk about the people you work with, it doesn't necassery mean that she is cheating on you with her.
The thing to do if the spark has gone from your relationship is to ask her about that. if she's any kind of decent person and something is going on she would be truthful,
good luck
2007-07-26 03:20:49 · answer #4 · answered by chloe_saiana 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Check her phone, if she deletes her messages and clears call logs there is something she doesnt want you to see. If she suddenly 'works' longer hours when she didnt before. If she is getting more interested in her appearance, new sexier clothes etc. Good luck honey
2007-07-26 03:39:45 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your first instinct is usually correct if you got a sense for things. Other tells are late night phone calls, a feeling of her disconnecting from you, not really into it as much when love making, and a wider puss y.
2007-07-26 03:22:54 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Chapped lips.
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2007-07-26 03:44:51 · answer #7 · answered by Wise@ss 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋