Do you want to share with us what is going on with you............??

Question

We all get so caught up in our own crap that we forget that there are people who have really big issues that are affecting our lives so tremendously. So if you would like, could you share with us the major issues that you are facing right now.

I am living in a country where i am an alien. i dont have a permit to work and i have to do jobs that are beneath me or indignifying and i was just denied my work permit and i cannot reach my lawyer and i am stuck cleaning houses even though i did a machelors in marketing in my home country. i am hanging in there cause i am not a quitter. i know i will have a better life, because I Want It.!!!!

please share

Answer 1

That's nice of you to ask that question, and hang in there, preservance is the key! As for me, i'm moving tomorrow to go to college,after living 21 years(my whole life) in one spot, with my parents as my best friends, we always hung out together and now its not going to be that way, I'm going through separation anxiety, i know it, but it doesn't help that i do! lol. My husband's parents just filed for divorce early last week(my husband and I got married July 7th), my brother-in-law is moving to another state and my in-laws are leaning on my husband for support(which is understandable and I support him as much as I can).Its not easy but I've been doing a lot of praying and studying the bible. It really helps! God bless you all and hang in there!

Answer 2

I am living in a country where most days I can't leave my back yard. I cannot work and even the jobs beneath me are often impossible for me to do. Even though I attended a US college for 5 years, I have no degree, but that matters not, for I am unemployable. Most household cleaning is beyond me, and laundry has filled half of my closet. I want to help myself, but I can't. Most of my days are spent watching daytime TV and playing with hobbies. I don't answer the phone unless it's my husband or son. I can't go to church. When I leave the house I am a dangerous driver, and often panic in stores. I visited my doctor three times a week, until the insurance ran out. This is what is going on with me...I have chronic depression with anxiety disorder. I am hanging in there cause I am not a quitter. I know I will have a better life, because I BELIEVE!!!

Answer 3

Its nice of you to ask such a question. You are right, everyone seems to have things at all times that are bothering them. I personally am facing some financial issues right now. I just don't seem to have enough money to live on and I'm thinking of getting a 2nd job. I'm single and its hard with a mortgage payment, car payment, utilities, a few credit cards (which I have closed) etc...etc...

However I asked a question on here just recently, I asked for advice and I was raked over the coals for the moral family dilema that I'm part of right now.....I was told that I was a ho, I'm 51 and I don't feel like a ho. I was told that I should burn in hell, etc. etc. So I appreciate your concern and although I'm not proud of the problem that I partly created, I wanted advice and not insults. So I won't take the opportunity even though you've offered, it doesn't appear to do a lot of good.

Empathy from people you don't know seems hard to come by.

Answer 4

Thanks for asking.

I'm looking for my first career job and I'm scared to death. I have all the paperwork together but I'm afraid of the interview and of actually getting a job in such a high-stress field. I'm pretty low-key and I'm afraid of how much energy and spontaneity this is going to require. I've also had a relative move out of my home recently and things in the house are changing. I'm afraid that I am going to lose precious time with friends and family because of the work I'm going to have to take home from my job.

I have a friend that I've devoted a lot of time to and I see that it's not panning out between us. She hasn't replied to me in almost a week now and I have no idea why. I've been busy myself but I still make time to reply to friends within a reasonable time frame. The friend doesn't know, but she's also been a mental disruption to my relationship with my boyfriend. It's been hard to balance, so in a way, I guess it's better that she and I don't talk. But it's also too bad because we have a lot in common and a lot we could share. It sucks.

Answer 5

You sound like a very strong person. When you want something, nothing will stop or get in your way of achieve your goal in life. I look at it this way, when things aren't going good or should I say when I think my world is tumbling down, I look around me and there's always someone worst off then me, and there dealing with it , with open arms; and I feel bad, because my problem isn't that bad. You see what I mean? Just look around, go to a hospital, a nursing home, that's sad! Hang in there, remember nothing last forever.

Answer 6

I'm going through a period where I absolutely hate everyone around me. I have trouble reminding myself that nobody's perfect, and get annoyed by every single flaw a person has. I haven't had this problem before, I don't know, today's not my day...

May your life be less complicated than mine,
Annie

Answer 7

im going through a period where im off from school for the summer and it seems as if alot of my friends have forgotton me and are always busy and never have time for me. Basicly everything has been boring and by myself and sometimes with my family which can get boring after awhile. blahh :(

Answer 8

9 months later...I dont care about anyone else but me. My story is to long to tell so Ill just leave it at that.

Answer 9

Good for you---hang in there--It will work out...

Answer 10

I am overwhelmed with my responsibilites; but, I persevere! what else is there to do??