i dont no why but ............??????????.?

Question

its like i HATE every1 around me.
when ever i talk to them i feel my self gust get mad or sad & i dont no why.

& i think they are part of the reason whyi cut myself causeits normaly after i have been around then &stuff

why is this i love my family but i cant wait till i get 2 leave there house when im 18

& 2 day i cut myself & i cant figer out Y i did
all i remember was i was with my family then i ran up stairs & started 2 cut

DOES ANY1 NO WHY IM LIKE THIS?????????
I THINK I NEED HELP BUT I DONT WANT 2 TALK 2 MY FAMILY OR CALL SOME STUPID #

Answer 1

I am so sorry you need to cut yourself. You have control of only one thing in your life, cutting. You realyze it is not good, otherwise you would not have asked the question. I'm sorry that your family is so dysfunctional. Please get help for yourself, before it is too late. You have to stop letting your family affect you so badly. You cannot control them, but you can control yourself. You need to learn to like yourself enough not to cut yourself. You can learn how to control your pain in a better way. Your whole family needs help, but you see the need for it. Please get help. There are people who care. I am one, even though I do not know you personally. I know you are a very sensitive person who cares. Please stop letting your family make you so hurt that to relieve your pain inside, you have to cut yourself outside. Call a hotline now. It's anonymous. You can share your feelings wihout fear of pain or being judged. Please take care of yourself.

Answer 2

im not sure why, and i dont claim to know how to help you fully
but i just wanted to let u know that...you DONT have it all that bad.
atleast u get some personal space when u move out at 18.
im 20, i commute 3 hours a day to attend classes and then i come back straight to my home where i live with my family. it is super frustrating sometimes because i feel like i just need to get out of here and i know i never will be able to live on my own. my family doesnt accept that.
so pretty much, im stuck here in this routine until i get married and have to put up with a husband.
thats my life. and im older than u.
i understand ur need to just 'get away from it all' because i get frustrated too sometimes and i just feel pissed off/mad/and i become very temperamental.

try to vent ur anger in some other way. play a sport, start working out. use your frustrations as a fuel to keep busy. if u keep urself busy(school, activities, sports etc) time will go by MUCH quicker and you'll be out soon. trust me, it works. and this way you arent hurting urself, but only getting stronger.

discover yourself. ur still young, as am i. i try different things to keepbusy. remember, an idle mind is the devil's playground. diverging your energy elsewhere will help you focus less on how miserable your situation is.

best wishes.
now, smile a little! :)

Answer 3

Triple H, I find him a boring wrestler who needs to get out of the business, he doesnt have many moves either less than cena he only married stef for 12 titles, he needs to be a midcarder, he takes the title from more awesome wrestlers like edge or randy orton, he was better as a heel but i just dont like him all round as a heel or face, he is also rude to other wrestlers in the back and hates better wrestlers than him randy and edge, he loves vince and if he didnt do stef he would be a washed up nobody

Answer 4

A lot of people struggle with things like that. I go through stuff like that all the time. I have sudden feelings of loathing towards, well, everyone. I know it's difficult to talk to your family, but I would. You could have an imbalance of certain chemicals in your brain that are causing you to feel angry and sad. I would go to the doctor and tell them whats been going on. My sister did and they helped her out a lot. Just know that you're not the only one feeling like this! If you need to talk to someone, email me. Or I can give you my AIM sn.
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Answer 5

Set yourself up with therapy. Talk with your family. You're full of hate and sound very high strung. You have to make the first step on this one or you'll never get the help. I can understand you hating people. It's easy to do in todays world but if you can't control the hate without cutting then you have to get help.

Answer 6

i know exacly how you feel....i used to cut myself too, and i hated my family and everyone around me....i hated my mom for geting a divorce... i hated my friends for being such ***holes. all you need to do is have more activities... hang outwith your friends more. think more possitiv, go on website and find out how to stop cutting yourself..one of the ways is to tape your usual cutting scisors that you use to cut ur self. cross your arms and go to ur santurary place, ur calm place, a place where you can relax and escape from the world( for me is my backyard) have self discipline.. even though u dont feel it working at first but then after a few times itll work. your probably like this because you have too much stress in your life, too much coming at you. good luck:) i hope it helps:):):)

Answer 7

Do not cut your self!!!!! Just talk to them and tell them how you feel. Do not go around doing stuff like that. And if after you talk to them and they do not listen you should get a councilor or something. Cutting yourself will not do any good.

Answer 8

I think that you probably is still hurt off something that done happen in the past. Just take a minute to relax and think about nice things like places you would like to go and people you would want to see.

Answer 9

You need to see a counselor to deal with the cutting and your emotions. Moving out will not solve the problems.

Answer 10

you are not stupid. you need help and some of you sees it. You are depressed and pretty much so. i am not sure why but this would all go away if you could just talk to a doctor and find out what makes you tick and fix it.