Men - do your wives become less attractive / sexually stimulating to you after you've been married for a while? - i.e., b/c you get used to your wives, & there is newer (perhaps more objectively attractive) stimuli out there... I'm not talking about committment ~ just wondering about mens' sexual reactions after they've been married for some time.
2007-07-25 12:06:47 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Nope - its been 11+ years of marriage and we've been together for over 16 years.
I jump her bones twice a day if she'd let me.
If you're asking if I look at other women, why yes I do notice them, but as far as sexual attraction goes - she's it.
2007-07-25 12:12:45 · answer #1 · answered by aa889d 5 · 5⤊ 0⤋
Not at all, We've been together about 19 years (Married just under 15) and my wife is still as (sexually) attractive to me as she was the first time I saw her.
2007-07-25 20:25:48 · answer #2 · answered by Odie 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think attraction lessens because the wife is always points out her problem areas. After a while all I can see is how ugly she is because she is just one giant problem area. If a woman wants to remain pretty in the eyes of her spouse, she should shut up.
2007-07-25 19:38:12 · answer #3 · answered by snack_daddy10 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if your wife lets herself go, then there is no attraction. all men will look at other hotties, cuz were visual. Iv'e been married 17yrs and she has only gained 10lbs. since wev'e been together, even after having multiples. if she's a nag and has to change you, the attraction fades. My wife is a keeper.
2007-07-25 19:18:47 · answer #4 · answered by Bone Daddy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She is still as sexually attractive to me as ever. After 20+ years , I can tell you that it's natural for desire to ebb and flow. It always comes back strong though. That's why I never consider cheating.
2007-07-25 19:21:05 · answer #5 · answered by morris 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No because of the emotional part attached. It becomes less of the physical and more of the emotional and connection between two people. Deeper love
2007-07-25 19:13:13 · answer #6 · answered by Pengy 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Nope
2007-07-25 19:09:43 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would say that just as often as it's some men's need for variety as it is the woman nags more now that they're married.
2007-07-25 19:12:51 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A wife can be ugly as old hell. If her man get all the attention he wants and needs at home then he wont be looking elsewhere for it. That doesn't mean he will be blind .
2007-07-25 19:14:42 · answer #9 · answered by reinformer 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Married to my wife for more than 20yrs and she
still presents herself to me in a sexy way. Her style
and profile consistently energizes me.
2007-07-25 21:23:20 · answer #10 · answered by RudiA 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋