Hi Dear;
Well, first lying and cheating is not only a guy thing, but it comes to only one thing. Maybe some might disagree with me, but when somebody intentionally hurts you in any way it is because they don't love you enough. In my opinion regardless of what a cheater might say, when you truly love someone you can't have eyes for someone else. Specially now a days with all the dangers and infirmities that can be sexually transmitted onto the innocent party.
I came to the conclusion that most cheaters think that they love somebody because they can't distinguish between love and physical attraction. The difference between truly loving someone and being attracted to them is your level of faithfulness towards them. Faithfulness, communication and trust are the core of a relationship, and without them love can't exist. A good relationship has to be based in TRUE love NOT physical attraction, and a good relationship requires trust, and after someone betrays you is almost impossible to recuperate that same trust. Moreover, when someone cheats and he or she is forgiven they'll do it again, and the chances of that relationship to last are not very high. I think that the best thing to do is to when somebody cheats on you is to brake it off and walk away. I know it might hurt, but when somebody does that to you they don't deserve your love and nevertheless your tears.
DUMP THAT LOOSER!!!
I hope this helps honey...God Luck & God Bless!!!
Gaby
2007-07-25 13:17:47
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answered by Scarlett 3
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Men will tell you anything to get what they want# 1 RULE. Men feel as if they have to sample everything and if they don't, they are not a man. The values of today's society are screwed up. It takes a man to cry, love hard, work hard and sacrifice for his family.
Another reason is that wemon make men too comfortable so they believe that they can come back wagging their tails between their legs and your supposed to deal with it because you are a woman and that is what a woman is supposed to do.
I am lucky that I have a good man and we hold the same valuables; love, honor and respect.
2007-07-25 12:32:05
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answered by moeschk 3
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Mustang Sally
Well could it be that he maybe loves you like a sister or friend? But maybe not 'IN LOVE" with you?
You know there are several types of "LOVE" right??? Maybe he's not the marrying kind. or maybe not the type to be tied down to just one gal. ?? Some men are not real ready to commit..... till maybe they screw it up so badly, that the only good thing for him,,,,just walks away...... Once a cheater, sweetie, always a cheater. Just pack up your tears, your broken heart, pack up your anger,,,,and just walk away......dont even look back.... Clearly this is your sign.
2007-07-25 12:00:24
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answered by Anonymous
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we tend to screw spree around if were not inlove yet
its itchie down there, some kind of a inborn rash
hehehe! My advice, go date some, sum qualities and quantities
in a long journey of bending and orging, maybe youll stumble upon a great man that who loves you so much that he wont screw any woman at all besides YOU.........
keep looking, dont lose hope, im here
hehehe, im just joking
2007-07-25 12:11:49
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answered by gregory mcdaemon 1
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Certain people will do whatever to get what they want, not just men. The girl he's screwing is probably cheating on someone too.
2007-07-25 11:57:26
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answered by Anonymous
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Men will tell you what you want to here to be able to go to get what they want from you. They know that this is the way to get what they want and they will not even bat an eye when they are leading you on.
2007-07-25 11:58:28
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answered by Anonymous
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Why do some people generalize their experience to include all of the oposite sex? If he told you he loved you but then cheated, he didn't really love you. But that doesn't generalize to all men, or all women, or all situations, for that matter.
2007-07-25 11:58:06
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answered by shine_radiantstar 4
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cause they are a** holes they don't have any respect and think they can get away with it cause the girl always takes them back but in the same situation girls can do it too so its a two way street on that one
2007-07-25 11:57:37
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answered by Anonymous
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Because some people can be dishonest and not seem to care how others feel.
2007-07-25 11:57:21
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answered by southwest_mountain_girl 2
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because love and sex are two different things ...one is physical and one is emotional .... we men have worked that out 1000's of years ago ...its only you women who have confused the two things and tried to make them into one thing... so its not us men who are at fault
2007-07-25 12:41:32
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answered by Anonymous
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