well i moved back home after breaking up w/ the girl. finally getting back on my feet financially & emotionally. i'm working 2 jobs. it was hard breaking up w/ her but necessary. if u need some background on my situation look at my previous yahoo questions. that's the story. anyway, the ex called wanting a 2nd chance just recently. she said she is sorry & that the kids miss me. i told her that things have changed & i don't want to be involved right now. i want to focus on me & my life for alittle bit w/out the drama of having children around. they are nt my kids by the way. i wasn't trying to be mean about it. i was telling the truth. i miss having time to myself, going to different places and having fun when i go out w/out stress of them being up in my grill & worrying about a getting a babysitter. most of all i think she wants a "daddy" & someone to take care of her & nt a lifelong partner. i'm nt wanting to do the taking of part. am i wrong for this. i was being honest to her.
2007-07-25 11:36:03 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Hell yeah you were being honest, if you dont want to return to that hell then dont, take time for you and only you.....you did the right thing.
2007-07-25 11:41:17 · answer #1 · answered by califababy25 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont think it is wrong! You are speaking up ur mind and being clear with her.. YOu are not trying to be mean but sometimes truth hurts you know specially when talking about Kids.. (Her kids) .
I think you should take this time to clear ur mind and see what exactly is what u want for you.
It didnt seem to bother you (Kids) when you started this relationship so i would recommend trying to explain to her what u want without using the kids excuse which is a bit harsh!
2007-07-25 11:43:33 · answer #2 · answered by ~Sweet Allie~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are being honest here, good for you. You did the right thing here you need some time out now.... nothing is wrong with that.
2007-07-25 12:28:06 · answer #3 · answered by kim t 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋