Im 13 and never been kissed i know that people wil think that im too young but nearly everyone in my class has been kissed in either primary 7 or 1st year i have had 1 boyfreind but it was in primary 7 and since then i havent really had 1, is there something is wrong with me !! or is it the fact that i have dark ginger hair!!!!!!
HELP!!
2007-07-25 08:57:40 · 17 answers · asked by L. 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Your hair is not a problem, I would find some cute boy and ask him for a kiss, tell him you just want to see what it is like.
2007-07-25 09:00:24 · answer #1 · answered by Steve C 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Don't even worry about it. Your first kiss is definitely something to anticipate, but it's definitely NOT something to desparately search for. Chances are, the longer you wait, the more special it will be! Get this: I was my husband's first kiss. He was 21. Was he a loser? No way! Every girl at his church was crazy about him, and probably would have loved to kiss him ever since he was like 10 years old! lol. He definitely COULD'VE been kissed way earlier. But he waited. I absolutely LOVE knowing that I've never had to "share" ANY part of my husband with ANYone else. I bet your future husband would love it if you waited for him, or at least saved as much of yourself as you can. That way your first, and your last, will be with the same person, and you can share those memories together for the rest of your lives! Now I'm not saying, "WAIT TILL YOU'RE MARRIED!" lol. I would say that about sex, but not about a kiss. All I'm saying is, be patient about it:) Wait for when it'll be unforgettably special (whether it's when you're 15 or 30!), rather than unforgettably pointless (when a boy is cute enough);)
2007-07-25 16:05:57 · answer #2 · answered by HollywoodHousewife♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you just want a kiss or do you want a boyfriend or both?
If you want a boyfriend at the age of 13 you need to look hot. Do you look hot? You need to look 14 years old. Do you wear makeup including lip stick. How about eye shadow and liner?
Are you developed in the chest area? That always helps girls your age get dates. Do you have sexy legs? Wear short skirts, if so. Are you chubby? If so loose a few pounds. How about hair color? Can you put high lights in yours? Maybe blond or black or brown or all of the above.
Are you friendly and out going? Do you talk to boys a lot? Do you smile at boys a lot? Are you alone in among the boys a lot. These behaviors will get you a boyfriend.
2007-07-25 16:04:56 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not your hair. I promise.
I wasn't kissed until I was 15 so it's no big deal. Just keep smiling and being yourself. Don't let anyone in yoru year pressure you about never being kissed. I know people say wait till you find the right person in terms of sex but it applies, in my mind, to kissing as well. You don't want the memory of your first kiss to be with some random jerk because you just wanted to kiss someone. Find a special guy and go from there. That's a memory you'll have for a lifetime.
2007-07-25 16:02:10 · answer #4 · answered by part_cat 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I was not kissed until I was 16. Relax, the others get upset every time they break up with someone. The boys mostly just want someone to kiss, but they really don't care about the person until they are a lot older. Why worry about kissing someone who does not make you feel special ?
2007-07-25 16:01:57 · answer #5 · answered by Laurence W 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear lucy, 1- Your hair is just fine and also very arising to make one kiss you. 2- You'd better not think of it, cause it might make you an easy girl. 3- Only when you're shaken by a look and you're dead sure that you have shaken him too, let him kiss, cause then by feeling his lips and the heat in them you'll make sure that it's true or not. 4- and the time for that is over 16 when you might have more knowledge. 5- you'll get your share of love and tender in this world and nothing to worry about I'll promise you. 6- I'm 25 years older than you and dying to have my answer be chosen as the best answer but I know I'll get it only when it's time for me to get my share of best answer. Love you , wish you patience.
2007-07-25 16:34:41 · answer #6 · answered by ghassemee 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, I understand your dilemma- I used to be the same way. I didn't get my first kiss until I was 15 and I was so embarrassed. But, trust me, it will come and then it will happen again and again and again and again, etc. Whatever you do, make sure that your "first kiss" is with someone you won't regret wasting it on later! Mine was a disgrace!
Oh, and red hair is BEAUTIFUL!
2007-07-25 16:03:31 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
chill. So you haven't been kissed.....
Next year, when they're starting to have sex, are you going to do that too just because they did? Are you going to smoke pot and drink because they did? Are you going to have a baby because they did?
What is popular is not always right, and what is right is not always popular.
If it's any consolation, I prefer dark ginger hair a whole lot over blonde any day.
2007-07-25 16:01:54 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG!!! I WAS IN THE SAME POSITION AS YOU that was only a years ago in 14 now
do you have any friends that are boys that saying a boy and girl cant stay friend forever is true all my friends are boys and they all got jealous when i was going out with one of my friends!!! but anyway dont rush your self i thought i was never gunna get a boyfriend but now look at me!!!
2007-07-25 16:05:17 · answer #9 · answered by NOVA 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wasn't kissed until I was 16, almost 17. It just varies person to person, nothing is wrong with you. Don't worry about what other people think and what other people are doing....just wait until you find the right person, it'll happen, trust me.
2007-07-25 16:01:11 · answer #10 · answered by Jnizz 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋