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who dated
a 22 year old man
a 16 year old boy
a 13 year old boy
a 14 year old boy

sometimes two at once.

please leave your age. Thanks:)

2007-07-25 08:31:51 · 43 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music Polls & Surveys

People apparantly took it the wrong way!! My cousin does these things. I am 15 and I am trying to figure out a way to stop her. I was thinking of showing her what people thought of her. Sorry for the misunderstanding.

2007-07-25 08:38:49 · update #1

43 answers

I would say, where are her parents?

age 53

2007-07-25 08:34:12 · answer #1 · answered by Pixie 7 · 3 0

Let's face it, the only thing a 22 year old wants with a 14 year old is probably not in her best interests. And vice versa.

Having been one of those 14 year olds, I know what I'm talking about!

That's probably true of all other ages groups too because really, guys are pigs! LOL - but at least they're on a level playing field. And there's no question of statutory rape.

There's nothing wrong with dating more than one guy at a time. Not at 14! In fact that's what most parents seem to prefer - playing the field. They seem to worry if their kid gets serious with just one guy.

As for being a "whore" as some sweetheart said, that's crap. I find it very very sad that these ugly words are still used today, especially by other girls. That's sick. Really really sick. People like that obviously have issues of their own and shouldn't worry about others' behavior.

2007-07-25 08:36:52 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

22- WAY too old. The only thing that's on his mind is probably something you don't want to do right now.

16- In my opinon, I think it's acceptable, but others might not. But be cautious, he's also thinking the same thing as the 22 year old.

13- Sure, about your age, why not?

14- Yeah.

Two at once? Are you crazy!? That's not just being rude to them, it's sick.

I hope you eventually find a guy you really care about.

I'm 16.

2007-08-02 04:45:48 · answer #3 · answered by Car 2 · 0 0

Wow, I don't know how you would address a girl with such low self-esteem. Sounds like she really does not have a relationship with her father. She needs some sorta of positive role model. She needs to have something that she is good at to give her drive. Scare tactics may not work. I would say immediately try spending more time with her doing things and going places that would might expand her mind but keep her entertained. Build her up. She needs to know that she can do things without a man. She needs to be empowered. Check also with your church's local youth groups.

2007-08-02 06:30:40 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

I don't know about the 22 year old that's a bit old but the others are fine. Hopefully its just a movie or dinner date, maybe help each other with homework possibly.

32

2007-07-25 08:41:05 · answer #5 · answered by shrnstum 4 · 0 0

initially, getting together could ship him to reformatory for statutory rape. 2nd, even HE says he's not into youthful women, so he's in all probability keen on you in some incorrect way. He ought to easily think of you're cool, or be keen on you like a sprint sister. I completely get which you soften while he hugs you; each and every female needs to sense enjoyed and risk-free. do not misconstrue his hugs as romantic. rejoice with the friendship, not something extra.

2016-10-09 09:06:38 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0 0

im 15 and i think a 14 year old girl going out with a 22 year old would be completely wrong... 16 aint that bad 13 eeehh... 14 would be good..

2007-07-25 08:37:50 · answer #7 · answered by ☆Kay-ster :) ☆ 4 · 0 0

i would say your cuz has very low self-esteem about herself. is her dad in the picture?
something that doesn't change over the course of time is when young girls act out in that way, they have some sever personal problems-usually family issues.
i think a good way to help her is to help her figure out what her issues are and be there as a cousin/friend for her. sometimes people just need someone who will listen to them.

good luck

2007-08-01 15:10:55 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

WHAT a 22 years old guy
& 2 at once
omg

im 20

2007-08-02 01:26:14 · answer #9 · answered by Scratch N 3 · 0 0

She need some love,but she looking in all the wrong places. Now she needs 2 talk to a person that has been in her shoes. only to fine out the ending could b great. my age I am an adult.

2007-08-01 16:19:25 · answer #10 · answered by Here Kitty Kitty 5 · 0 0

14 is not the right age's for them to go dating (if you were asking for seriously dating ok) but dating with a friends is fine same age till 16 years of age, no problem as long as the parents knows where they're going.......

I'm 42 :-)

2007-08-01 19:03:30 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

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