Will this fear ever stop. I am scared of ever being with a guy because it feel wrong. I feel like I won't be socially accepted. I want to end this fear of rejection.
2007-07-25 08:18:28 · 30 answers · asked by A Journey 5 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
you are gay!!! thats not a bad thing
2007-07-25 08:21:01 · answer #1 · answered by larissa m 2 · 4⤊ 1⤋
Aww Brian you're lovable... lol... sorry... a li'l off-subject count number there... Yeah quite often every person has stated what i could have stated. however the bit approximately "why do gay people have this way of problem with bisexuals"... imo, gay people think of bi every person is truly in basic terms gay those that are nonetheless a million/2 in the closet and could not admit that they only like an analogous intercourse. in all probability nonetheless take offence with the help of questioning that some gay those that label themselves as bi are not totally out and proud like they are. yet like some ignorant right now people, there may well be some ignorant gay people too. I propose a million/2 the those that say they are bi ought to be in basic terms saying they are bi, as then they seem to be a minimum of partly right now of their minds, yet i'm particular that there are some those that have an interest in the two women and men. Sorry if that became right into somewhat ramble-y...
2016-10-09 09:05:46 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My thinking is you are probably very young and trying to work through your sexuality. If I'm wrong my apologies. Two things you might ask yourself: 1. Who am I? 2. What ought I to be. One is who you think you are at this time even though it may be wrong. The other is what you feel you ought to b even though it may be wrong. Then you have something to work with and figure out. If you are gay a lot of people won't accept you. It would probably not be good to wear pink tennis shoes and sashay your hips when you walk because some people will be really turned off by it. If you are gay or bi just learn to live with yourself the way you are. Then when you are comfortable with it take the next step in making your life what you want it to be. If you are straight the same thing applies. Do not wear pink tennis shoes and sashay your hips when you walk because some people will be really turned off by it. If you are straight just learn to live with yourself the way you are. Then when you are comfortable with it take the next step in making your life what you want it to be. (The ramblings of a weirdo)
2007-07-25 08:52:14 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't see why? There are so many people coming out of the closet and so many staying in, that it is unfortunately become part of everyone's life. Personally, I would prefer if everything stay behind closed doors, but I have/would never discreminate against or treat anyone differently because.
It may not be socially accepted, but it is media and politically accepted. You can't name 1 show that doesn't have a gay/lesbian/questionable character and that is because it is becoming mainstream.
Be true to yourself and if people really love you or are your true friends, they will stick by and support you.
2007-07-25 08:23:28 · answer #4 · answered by eniles21 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Our society in general will not be accepting it anytime soon - that's why you are scared. The only way to really end the fear of rejection is to accept and deal with the fact that there will be lots of rejection. I feel for you, brotha.
2007-07-25 08:23:24 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Try not to think about the gay or bi part. Think of what you think of yourself. Try to feel good about yourself. That is what really matters. There are always people who like to criticize. They have nothing else to do. So, get all that you can out of your life. Be the best person that YOU can be. That's all any of us can do. You are just as good as anyone else. You don't have to be with anybody unless you want to. You will be socially accepted. It takes all kinds to make this life we have. Live for yourself to be happy. Be nice to all people that you meet. You will be just fine.
2007-07-25 08:41:51 · answer #6 · answered by Barbra 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
becasue even though it has been around for over 50 years the public still frowns upon it. To end this fear of rejection you have to first find confidence with in. People keep their personal lifes personal. I do not go around telling people i am straight because that is personal. However if it feels wrong like you said above are you sure you are gay or bi?
2007-07-25 08:22:37 · answer #7 · answered by sss n 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Because it's not socially accepted across the board. Be who you are and let the cards fall where they may. It's a much happier life. Ask yourself if on your deathbed will you be happy that you lived an honest life or a life that was dictated by societal norms. Be who you are! Good luck :)
2007-07-25 08:22:49 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
EVERY man has wondered; could I be gay?
If it feels wrong, don't do it. Here's the test that I did; I went to a gay porn site and took a look. After I was done throwing up, I confidently declared myself not gay forever.
2007-07-25 08:22:05 · answer #9 · answered by thedavecorp 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
if you are gay or bi, just come out.
it's the only way you'll find out who's real with you.
don't be scared. if it feels wrong to be gay then you are not gay.
everyone has fear of rejection when they need to come out, but you gotta do it anyways.
2007-07-25 08:21:33 · answer #10 · answered by leslie 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
There will always be something you fear, It may be Aids if you stop fearing being gay or bi.
2007-07-25 08:22:11 · answer #11 · answered by (?) 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋