my wife left me. i am very lonely cause we did everything together. where and how do i start over?

Answer 1

wow, i am so sorry to hear this, and i am sure that you are going through so many feelings right know,

and we on here cant tell you that its all going to be OK, or how to make you feel better, but want i can tell you, that in time it will get easy-er, and that in time you will see that you will be OK.

and to start over, will be the next hardest thing you will ever have to do. and if you keep a good heart about it all you will do great, and don't worry about it so much, what is meant to be will be,

i wish things good be easy er for you, and that the pain will go away quickly, so with that, you take are and i wish you the best :)))))))))

Answer 2

Ok so I am going to try to give you some advice. This is not a solution, just a helpfull tip.I am only 15 but I have had plenty of diviorced family memebers. MY grandparents of 53 years got divorced not long ago.I know you are lonely and it is hard, but dont feel that you have to have someone right away.My grandfather was so lonely. SO he went out and started the phone dating. He had only been divorced a few months. When he called some lady called and asked if she could go on a date with him. He said yes and 3 days later that woman moved in with him. Then a year later they got married. SHE IS HORRIBLE. If your family tells you your new girlfreind wife whatever is horrible, listen to them.Dont rush to get back together with someone.You need a while to heal and not be so needy. In time you will have another relatioinship. Untill then you should try to hang out with you freind and family and make new freinds and just do anything to get your mind off your problem.I really hope this will help you and you can use it. If you need anymore help just contact me using the contact me button on my profile. Godd Bless and dont rush!

Answer 3

Whatever ur going through right now is just a phase.. u think u lost everything but u didn't.. give it some time, get ur mind off of it, go out.. make some new friends if u guys had mutual friends.. be optimistic its another chance for u to meet someone new.. now u can customize ur next.. ur more experienced so u know what u want and what u don't want.. apply what u learned from ur previous relationship, if u think of it its sooo exciting to start over, u live once,, make the best out of ur life, don't waste a day not smiling and laughing, appreciate what u have and dont have =)

Answer 4

If you have God, talk to him. You should also look on the bright side. You will not be bounded, there are many other women out there. If she left you for an unreasonable reason, then it was her loss. Also if you don't have children, then for the time being a dog, or pet might be the answer. All things work together for good, so God might not have intended her to be your soulmate. You will survive, you'll find a way. Keep saying that... you will find a good life, with friends, soon, and won't be lonely again. Wait and see!

Answer 5

Bummer dude ! I have been there , same deal , I thought I would never get through it . It felt like my Heart was gone. But things got better , I still have "moments" that are hard but for the most part life goes on. I am lucky ...very lucky...me and my X are back to being best friends (and sometimes were friends w/ benifets) I often am thankfull we didn't do something harsh and foolishly drastic to each other durring the divorce , that might have changed things now . We both love our daughter and want her to be happy ya know ? That's why we have tried to remain friends - because no child wants to see their parents fighting ya know ? Take it one small step at a time, You will get through it - You were alone when you were younger and you made it this far - much too far into this journey to turn back or give-up now .....Keep a stiff upper lip and your eyes on the road , and both hands on the wheel and you will get to where you are going......I know you feel lost right now , but don't give up !!!

Answer 6

Get a golden retriever and a DVD player. Smile at lots of people, and get to know yourself better. Get a new hair style, go tan. But don't take a trip or buy a new car that's all superficial. Take up that Hobie you have never tried but wanted to. CLEAN YOUR HOUSE! Looking self assured is very attractive so be careful all the Lady's will be curious and you don't want to get sucked it to a new relationship too fast. The longer you wait the more you will see how valuable you are to you, this will help you choose the right person to partner with. Have fun with it and most of all forgive the ex wife I'm sure she deserves it.

Answer 7

I'd say to go out. Not looking for a replacement, but just to get out. You'll find that as you find new places to go, you'll find new happiness. You may become a regular at a nice coffee shop, and meet other regluars. You can just go somewhere you have a hobby or interrest in. Others with the same will be there and you can start making friends based on similarities. Once you start getting past the sadness, you'll start seeing the better things in life you're missing.

Answer 8

You don't start over you just keep moving, try Internet dating, single bars,even the telephone date line thing I use to have a lot of fun and met some interesting people you will always find someone there who is willing listen; just to have something to do. All you need right now is to step out and get your feet wet a little, you will be fine. Much love, and good luck.

Answer 9

That's very sad. She must be missing out. You don't need her. Just let what comes come what may, and wait for a little while, and then you can prepare to start a relationship over again with someone new. If you can go get your old wife back, admitting your wrong even if she is wrong, because she may admit it, and saying "yes dear" goes a long way, but don't go back to her if she is no good for you. I hate to see couples separate, and quite honestly I hate to see new ones, unless they need someone new. Just relax and have a good life!

Answer 10

Try joining some meetup or hobby groups... see if the library needs volunteers... or volunteer elsewhere... try taking a course at college at night or weekends, like a basic cooking course, or a book discussion club, something where you interact socially with other men and women... do NOT look for a new relationship yet... spend time on yourself, trying new things involving other people as a group...