when we are at home he kisses me and wants to hold me and hold hands and all that BUT when we go out say to like the store he goes his way and lets me go my way and we never hold hands or kiss or nothing. why?? if i try to get close to him when were out he'll follow along but if i dont make a move he doesnt either. i fell like he has lost love for me but then when we are at home hes such a sweet heart.
2007-07-25 06:03:31 · 9 answers · asked by TTC #2 Baby Dust MEEE! 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
that's the way he is, don't push it and be a sweetheart in private. He'll come around, or you will, doesn't matter which.
2007-07-25 06:08:08 · answer #1 · answered by doovinator 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
How long have you guys been together. Honestly, you don't need to be mushy 24/7. Do you crave that attention? Let the man be. Maybe he's not into PDA at all, there are a lot of guys like that.
2007-07-25 06:10:31 · answer #2 · answered by crodriguez1010 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Many men do not like public displays of affection. Personally, I absolutely hate seeing people practicly sucking each other's faces off in public. It'd disgusting and should be left to do those things in private.
He respects you and loves you. He doesn't want to degrade you by sucking face and such in public. Be proud of your man!
2007-07-25 06:09:59 · answer #3 · answered by Starla_C 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you ever noticed what he does or who is around when he goes his way? I have experienced this kind of situation and I finally found out that he had girls following him wherever he went, groupie type. I don't know if I went through something isolated or not but if one does it maybe we should keep closer eyes on what is going on around us. It started with that crap and eventually they were coming to the house when I would leave and it just got worse and worse. I hope and pray you are not going through the same thing I was.
2007-07-25 06:34:22 · answer #4 · answered by pattycake046 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he isn't all that too hip about PDA. (Public Display of Affection). It is just who he is. I am one of those myself. Love my husband dearly and will hold hands in public, but that is about it.
2007-07-25 06:10:58 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes as couples get used to being together they don't display affection in public as much. It has nothing to do with how much he loves you.
2007-07-25 06:10:16 · answer #6 · answered by StormyC 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Next time you go to the store, watch other couples... above the ages of 15 or so.
2007-07-25 06:07:40 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Men usually aren't into PDA - Public Displays of Affection. If you want affection outside of the house then go get it......
He may be a reserved man.....I know mine is.....but he loves it when I mess with him public and he knows that I am not reserved.....I have embarrassed him on occasion.
2007-07-25 06:09:36 · answer #8 · answered by Been There Done That 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
if he never showed you affection in public before and still doesn't then maybe he's just shy about it in public...totally normal. However, if he has jsut all of a sudden stopped showing you affection in public then you might have some big problems. I would sit down and ask him why he won't show you affection in public.
2007-07-25 06:08:39 · answer #9 · answered by Steven's Mommy 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋