or is she really? I've known her over 10 yrs. she lives just a few hrs from me but never wants to come up to see me...I've gone to see her though! (she will go to her other friends house who lives just as far from her as I do)....& when I call her, she always tries to get me off the phone in a hurry...She always has an excuse! What is her problem? We've had our disagreements & stuff but when I ask her if shes mad at me about anything she says: NO!
Should I just forget her or try to make believe its a friendship?
2007-07-25 04:42:22 · 6 answers · asked by east2west92 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I would say that she doesn't really consider you a friend. There doesn't have to be something in particular that you have done. It could be that you two no longer truly have shared interests. Don't call and see if she calls you. If not, let her go. Don't chase after a friendship with anyone. These things happen.
2007-07-25 04:47:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like she is bothered by you. If I were you I would just forget about her. What is the point of trying to make a connection w/ someone if they act like that? There are plenty of other amazing people you could get to know. I would just quit trying to contact her and look for some new friends that are closer to your area.
2007-07-25 17:52:24 · answer #2 · answered by Constance C 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have already brought up the issue with her without resolution, then take a break from her. Don't just give up, she may realize that she has not heard from you in a while or seen you, and decide to improve her relationship with you. First talk to her about how you feel.
2007-07-25 11:49:22 · answer #3 · answered by Lov'n IT! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont call her up for sometime. when u meet her talk to her in a natural manner -- dont leave an impression as if u r dying for her friendship. if she doesnt want to talk to u -- just let it be -- u can have a thousand more friends -- she is not the only one...
2007-07-25 11:56:24 · answer #4 · answered by pearl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes people has their own timing on procesig certain information that you may not be aware of... Just let it go... She will come around!
Good Luck!
2007-07-25 11:48:25 · answer #5 · answered by GRINGA1977 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
2 words.confront her.tell her how you feel.ask her why shes doing that.if shes rude or anything,tell her you dont wanna be friends.at least then you will be able to say if she goes off and cries you were nice about it.
2007-07-25 12:07:43 · answer #6 · answered by Shay H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋