2007-07-25 04:35:51 · 43 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
mamabear took the words right out of my mouth...
2007-07-28 21:31:29 · answer #1 · answered by tiosharaveen 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay first response is that you could be described by a few choise words that I try not to use and wouldn't use in writing for sure. I do try to have an open mind though so here you go: why do you dislike this kid so much? Is it personal...like things he does to you? If there are valid reasons you don't like "the kid", and you do care about the mother, I would say talk to her not about getting rid of the kid (he is NOT a pet). But maybe the kid needs help. You would be a better person to help her and the kid through it. Obviously if you are in the picture, the kid hasn't had a "Leave it to Beaver" life. YOu could be rewarded more than you could imagine by succombing to the situation and being part of the family. Simple you have a choice get a life and move on (you might even want to talk to a Urologist they have procedures that can help the future of us all....vasectomy). Second choice, help her dedicate yourself to her and the child...if the child is old enough have a heart to heart find out why he is so unruly (if he is) maybe he needs comfort from you too...maybe he's seen guys in and out and is confused and frustrated. Maybe he thinks "Daddy" will come home if you leave. Probably...he wants to get rid of you more than you want to get rid of him. Suck it up be a man....get up or get out. Don't hurt the kid anymore and don't hurt yourself or the mom. It has to be in your heart and a commitment if not find someone without kids.
2007-07-25 04:59:28 · answer #2 · answered by trainergirl30 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Are freaking kidding me? Is there something wrong with you? Noone in their right mind would try to have a mother get rid of her kid. It seems like to me you want all of the attention that she is giving to the kid. I think you need a big boot up your **** and out the door you go. If she is a great mother and loves her child she will know what to do with you. So, get over it and I suggest you not have any kids at all!!!! Thanks have a great day
2007-07-25 16:08:37 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How dare you even think about asking her to get rid of her child! What kind of creep are you? You either accept her child, or get out of the relationship and move on. If you hate kids, then don't date women with children, but for you to propose that she give up her child, you are an evil man.
2007-07-25 12:24:40 · answer #4 · answered by cardgirl2 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your the same bored kid I just replied too. I think you need to find another section to ask questions. You must be a little kid.. Regarding the kid. You date the woman, you get the whole package. I'm sure your mother's boyfriends felt the same way about you..
2007-07-25 04:43:03 · answer #5 · answered by xjaz1 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
WOW that's impressive for someone that has MD in his name. Not that I thought you were a real MD in the first place. That is low. I am the mother of two and nothing and I mean NOTHING you could say or do would make me give my children up. And if you have a woman that will give up her child for you then you both deserve each other.
Smokin
P.S. I guess you found the woman to have the affair without your wife finding out.
2007-07-25 04:52:21 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
you are a complete jerk off. how could you expect a mother to choose some jackass like you over her own child, like anyone would "get rid" of their kid, expecially for YOU! Maybe the reason you don't like the kid is because he's on to what a coniving little bastard you are and treats you accordingly.
2007-07-25 09:27:16 · answer #7 · answered by Jeanna A 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your a complete wierdo! You cant ask or force a woman to 'get rid' of her child, nor can you 'get rid' of it either. Either grow to love that child or move on crazy boy-for gods sake, why are there so many crazy people in the world, that poor woman doesnt know what a lunatic shes dating!
2007-07-25 04:42:54 · answer #8 · answered by eva m 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
you are an a**! you can not force a mother to get rid of her child (if she is a good mother). a good mother will always put her child/children before any man or person! maybe you need to start dating women without any children. and you have to understand, depending on how long she has been divorced from the child's dad, could be why the child is acting out towards you. you are a "threat" to him....in his eyes, you will be taking his mom from him, instead of trying to get rid of this child, maybe you shoudl try making friends with him instead.
2007-07-25 04:44:28 · answer #9 · answered by Latino Heat 4ever 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Well you should have thought of that before you started dating her. Women with kids are bundle its either you get all or nothing. If you like or love her you would not try to convince her to send the kid else where. You should learn to adapt.
2007-07-25 04:44:17 · answer #10 · answered by lachell 1 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Are you kidding! Hopefully she comes to her senses and gets rid of you!
2007-07-25 05:03:14 · answer #11 · answered by Lex82 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋