how do i tell some one and who if it was my older brother that raped me?
2007-07-25 04:20:29 · 10 answers · asked by zoelynn 1 in Health ➔ Women's Health
Im soooo sorry this happened to you! I had a simuliar experiance. I found that a very close friend that you can trust is the easiest for me. I finally was able to tell my family about a year after I confided in my friend! Good Luck!!!!
2007-07-25 05:20:48 · answer #1 · answered by amanda t 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You do not state how old you are now. I would start by telling my mother or father if you think that is possible if that is not the case maybe another close adult family member a Aunt or Grandparent still not the one for you a teacher at school can help you or your counselor at school try these first if you are still in danger of attack again you must tell someone immediately or dial 911 for help
2007-07-25 11:26:45 · answer #2 · answered by mdjgirl7 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Let me start by saying I'm so sorry...I think it may be wise to consider someone outside your family that you trust (pastor, teacher, coach). Before doing that consider your position, do you want to press charges, do you just want closure...I would also recommend counseling.
I don't know how old you are but I pray that you can move forward past this event. Know that you were a child and it was not your fault. Once you decide to speak up about it, keep talking until you get what you need...even if people don't want to hear it or believe it. God Speed.
2007-07-25 15:51:20 · answer #3 · answered by simplepleasures 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont know how old you are, but i think you've really kept it for long. if u know the person and u dont want to report the incident to the police, then keep away from him and if he tries to joke with u in anyway, u should tell him off. Tell your mum if you can, it might be difficult or has been a long time, but just sit her down one day and tell her. It would be difficult forgetting it completely, but try dear. think of something better wen u recollect the incidence.
2007-07-25 12:26:48 · answer #4 · answered by BSB 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
aunt, my reason being your mother or father will ( most likely feel very responsible for what happened and get emotional)but what you need is someone to talk to first. so tell an aunt or other relative first and get advice then when you feel up to it tell your mother/father.sorry about what happened hope you get better
2007-07-25 14:51:28 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call: Rape - RAINN Hotline 1-800-656-HOPE(4673)
http://messageboards.ivillage.com/iv-rlcrisis
2007-07-25 11:32:19 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm so sorry this has happened to you. I would suggest an online support group
2007-07-25 11:24:03 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
ohh my
i say tell someone you really trust
but why keep it to yourself for so long
2007-07-25 11:51:57 · answer #8 · answered by Munchy™ 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
im so sorry......... you might want to try a friends or relitive if you cant talk to your parents
2007-07-25 12:54:10 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
im soo sorry... i would suggest talking to an adult who your comfortable with..
2007-07-25 11:39:11 · answer #10 · answered by YourGirl08 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋