my boyfriend left me ....?

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and mii parent hate me for getting pregnant soo young i'm not even 13 yet please help me

Answer 1

I smell a troll.

Answer 2

Hiya, well I ain't going to have a go at you for getting pregnant at such a young age, you've probably heard enough of that.
But please think about this -
Can you really make a good mum ?
I prosume your only 12, or even younger ?
Chances are you won't be ready to give up the rest of your life to care for your child.
Even when they are over 18, they will still rely on you.

I suggest you consider abortion / termination.
Or adoption.

Think about what that child would be coming into.
You cant have a job, you can't get your own place.
You don't have a man for support.
Not that everyone needs one, but they can be useful.
Think about this yeah ?
Good Luck whatever you decide to do.

Answer 3

I am sorry for you having to deal with something like that so early. As a Social Worker I would recommend you to go to an organization called parenting organization or any social services agency that can help you. Also a program called "Baby your Baby." would be wise to go to for consultation. You're really too young to have a baby. I wonder how old your boy friend was? If he was older than you, that could be considered staturary rape. He could be charged with that . To your parents, I hope they read the answers? Shame on you parents for not giving your child proper sex education and preventatory measurements. Teenagers will experience with sex! Parents ought to know better. Assist your Girl. She needs your help !Good luck to you.....

Answer 4

Your "boyfriend" can't just get you pregnant and then leave you. He's legally responsible for all the baby's expenses until the baby is 18 (unless you give it up for adoption, which is probably a good idea). You need legal help. Start with your local Child Protective Services or Family Welfare Agency for directions on what to do next.

Answer 5

You are very young to be pregnant and having to face adult situation and choices when you yourself are still a child. You parents don't hate you, they are up set at the choices you have made. They will calm down and help you to figure out your next step as weather to keep or give the baby up. Having a baby changes everything. Your very young and have never gone to Prom or to after football game parties etc. So think long and hard before you give up your childhood for someone Else's.

Answer 6

hun...you should have been more careful but its too late now. You need to have your options open...there are people out there that cant get preg and thats when adoption comes in. If you think that you cant take care of the baby and want a better life for him or her....maybe adoption should be your option? And about the boyfriend.....he is worthless and shouldnt have left you to deal with this all by yourself!

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i'm from london and i'm 17 i like guys to be sensitive, understanding and good kissers. it is always good flowers and chocolates on a first date but if shes popular non-fat chocolates and posh flowers. i hope this was some help to you, hope you get da girl that your tryin to impress

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Answer 8

Im so sorry for you , what you need is time to think about that , at first its probably schock for your parents , and it will go away with time...how old is your boyfriend? if he is so young as you are its just means hes behaving on his age...when we are young we dont want to face a problem so we are run away as we could...You should talk with him , or your parents should to do that..anyway its his responsability now , however noone can force someone to love each other..its difficult..it can even take years for him to understand but i wish you better then that...Talk with your familly , you are young you dont know what you are doing..you need their help , or try help of your familly...I dont know what you plan to do..i hope you will choose right , being mother its such a nice thing , no matter how old are you , however you need help to deal with that..You are example of shity life...life kicked you so hard...kick it back..go and talk with your parents and him...send me a priv what they will say...Try to be confident that everything gonna be ok...takker...

Answer 9

Your parents are probably dissapointed and confused with the news. Hopefully with time they will see things different. But you still really really really young and don't need a lil boyfriend by your side. I hope you learn from your error and be careful next time.

Answer 10

if ur serious, then i feel bad for you. im not gonna lecture you cuz im sure you'll get that enough. the best advice i can give, is open up to at least one of your parents. you're going through a really tough time and having someone who has raised a child there to help you and to talk to will make you feel so much better. also, im sure they will help with the baby but you cant expect them to do all the work, help out as much as possible. god bless you. =)

Answer 11

if this aint a wind up, then i hope things work out for you. theres no point me saying that you shouldn't have done it in the first place coz it's too late now. i am sure your parents don't hate you, they are just disappointed. just tell them that you are really sorry, and if you could turn back time you would, but now you really need their help. forget your boyfriend, he's a loser. good luck xx