Is my fear baseless?

Question

There's this gal that I like and I've told her how I felt last year, at that time she said she just wanna be friends. But, as a year has gone, some things might have changed. Recently, I feel that she puts more interests.
But, her towards me:
1) I feel that she puts more interests when talking to me
2) And she was coming out of the lift and I was holding the door so that it won't close. She looked sideways and said, 'Thank you'
3) She joins the club that I'm heading although her pals didn't
4) I think she's shyer to talk to me, today in the club meeting her friend was like asking her to talk to me and even turned her head to face me, but then still she’s talking to her friend. They’re talking about the club that I’m heading.
But then there’s this guy who likes her too and he would try to find chance to talk to her an dher friends, smiling, It has ceased recently, but he’s making an effort again. And moreover they are both involved in the school band club! I’m really worried, although I’ve never seen him talking to her directly. The last I saw was him talking to her and her friends, and her friend was like giggling. She was just grinning and that boy was acting corny.

Answer 1

Fear weather snakes, hieghts, blood, spiders, girls are the dark, comes down to a lack of understanding the thing you fear. Which I always assume was the mind putting you in a fight or flight frame of mind, in hopes that you'll ballz up and learn about what it is you don't understand. With that said, NOPE your fear has a very established base. Which is you don't understand her, which hence makes you fear her. Its just the nature of the mind, ether way, your young, learn from this, try talking to her, open up, be friends, but I'd stay away from bring the emotions to bared until I see how well I click with her anyways. See you don't understand her, now because of the fear, because of the lack of knowledge about her, so theres no tell that once you become comfrontable, once you do undertand her, that you'll still be interested. So be smooth, take it slow, and learn buddy.