My two best friends from 6th grade decided that they hate me now.. They don't want anything to do with me! It makes me really sad that they don't. I have spent the whole summer alone because they were my only friends and now they left me. They say they don't like me because of some of the mistakes I made in the past but I don't understand why they hate me because of what I do without them. Its not like I'm making them do anything I used to.. One of them says she may wants to be my friend again.. should I let her back in, or do you think shes going to hurt me again? And the other one hates my guts still.. How can I change that? Please help! Thanx
2007-07-25 02:08:01 · 7 answers · asked by Samantha 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I moved to this town in 6th grade and they took me in and we were best friends all through 6,7, and 8th grades until Spring Break of 8th.. They were great to me all up to then and its going to be really hard to just go make new friends. I don't think I can do it! People kno about me past and now they don't want to kno my future.. what can I do? Please help!
2007-07-25 02:19:46 · update #1
I believe that if they were your"true friends" they would have never abandoned you. Friends are hard to come ...true, but you never want to let some take advantage of you. This is not like a layaway program on friendship. You know only be friends w/ me when its easiest for you..
you do not need anybody like this. You were there friends till the cows came home
People make mistakes all the time,
what gave them the right to judge you?.
Tell them to kick rocks.
2007-07-25 02:29:25 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had that happen to me when I was in sixth grade. I just went out and made new friends, although it is difficult in the summer time. That said, look back at the "mistakes" you made and learn from them. If you really did do something, then do it. The key to having good friends is BEING a good friend. Remember that, be the best person you can be, treat people with respect, and you'll have more friends in no time. And if you really want your old friends back, try saying you are sorry! Good luck!
2007-07-25 09:14:07 · answer #2 · answered by Mr. Taco 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't need friends like that. A true friend would forgive the mistakes you made if you are on a different path. There are plenty of other people out there to make friends with, even if that is easier said than done. Not everyone is going to like you, but you are worth better treatment then what you are getting. Good luck making better friends.
2007-07-25 09:15:13 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is just drama. It will past. there will be many girlfriends in your life that will back stab you, ditch you, talk about you. 6th grade was the worst for me too. My friends took me out of their click. But believe me you'll meet other girls and make new friends. This is just a part of middle school drama. Hang out with you family and spend some self time. Don't stress about immature girls and certainly don't make up with them just to have someone to hang out with.
Good Luck!
2007-07-25 09:14:28 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obviously they were not the greatest friends to you since they just dropped you like that so find some other friends. I think it would be best. You just learned a lesson in life of who your true friends are. It is not they're right to punish you. forget them
2007-07-25 09:13:13 · answer #5 · answered by butterfly_Ash 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go find out what exactly you did that made them hate you ? it could all have been a plain misunderstanding !
2007-07-25 09:12:17 · answer #6 · answered by aunt_webby 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
find new friends
2007-07-25 09:21:36 · answer #7 · answered by shayona p 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋