conflict between me and my wife?

Question

she has gone away and she hasn't phone me last two months what can asspect like this lady

Answer 1

If she has not contacted you did you ever tried to contact her of your own? This will be the first question that will be asked by any Family Court Judge when you go there for getting any sort of relief from the said court. What one expects from such lady is what she will tell herself, but first tell what you want now from her? Do you want to continue your marital life with her or leave her? If you want her back then go & bring her back home after a compromise & if you don't want to continue your marital relationship then too go & settle down this issue once for ever with her so it becomes easy for both of you to lead a normal life rather bearing all this tension in mind. I'm a very frank person & gives a very straight forward advice to everyone out here, either live like proper husband & wife sharing responsibilities equally amongst yourselves or just break this relationship for ever & live freely as you both wish individually. There is no third way out & anyone suggesting a third way out is a bloody fool nothing else.

Answer 2

Hi!!
It is very important to understand that there should be no ego between husband and wife. If she has not called you up then there must be a reason. It may be possible that the place she is living in right now are trying to brainwash her so that she leaves you. You cannot let it happen.
If she did not call you, then go to her place and sought things out. Everything will be alright. If you can't go there then call her up but I suggest that you should go there in person.

And if you mean to say that you don't know where she has gone then you should wait for some time. She will definitely come back and if she doesn't then give her details to the police. Why don't you think like she may also be in a trouble while she was away!! Wait for some time, if nothing comes up, give her details to the police.
Don't worry, everything will be alright!!

Take Care!!!

Answer 3

She is your wife. If she does not phone you, why not to take initiative & phone her to know her present condition. I think she may have some fresh problem she does not want to tell you to increase your tension. Remember, you have equal rights as she has. You must not be oblivious of her welfare even for a moment. Both of u must be positive, tolerant, soft, sweet & sincere in words & actions to keep married life happy & durable. when a boy & a girl select each other & get married, they must follow some minimum etiquettes of marriage & so, behaviours of both should be such that small things can easily be absorbed. Otherwise I'll say that both have not even understood the meaning of married life.

Answer 4

possible reasons
-may be she wants you to make the first move
-she might be very hurt by your actions
-she might be hot headed woman
- she must really be afraid of you or the enviornment
divorce may not be the immediate solution especially if one doesnot really understand why. there is every possibility the same thing may repeat in another relationship too.
- relax and go through the events and in an unbiased way try to think what brought you to this situation.
if marriage and wife means a lot make the first move. good luck

Answer 5

You better slove it yourself Why do not you approach her, do not you love her, if you really love her you would have approached her the day she left. Better get control of your ego. Ego is the sole cause for everything. If there is no ego in the family life then life will be very interesting and enjoyable. I hope you got my point.

Answer 6

If in India it would go way beyond Divorce - be prepared to go behind bars under Dowery Harassment and Domestic Violence, which she would slap on you under instructions from her lawyer to harass you and your family, get a speedy divorce & extort as much as possible from you and your family in terms of Money and Property. Go to www.saveindianfamily.org; www.498a.org

File a RCR - legally calling her back!!

Answer 7

Don't look into it, she is gone. Live your life & find someone else. No call, letter or even a post-it! She is a cowered to do something such as that.

Answer 8

Well, if she gone for 2 months, then it clearly shows she don't wana be wid u any more, i thinkn divorce is the only choice left wid u.

Answer 9

Is that a question about the conflict? Are you sure she has gone voluntarily? Do you know if she is safe?

Answer 10

Look if u really love her & want her back don't wait for her call...You pick up the phone & call her up....Forget about the fight and the reason behind it.........Dont just your marriage relation just let break for a fight....