If you're a guy and you fall in love with a girl and she says, "But you're just like a big brother to me?"
or If you're a girl and you fall in love with a guy and he says, "But you're just like a little sister to me?"
OUCH!!!!
2007-07-25 00:11:31 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
That is exactly what happened to me. It was even worse as the guy was younger than I. I guess I am lucky he didn't say I was like a big sister to him.
Ouch is right.
2007-07-25 04:50:32 · answer #1 · answered by Patti C 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
A Good Question.
It is not rejection but an honest clarification.
In the cases given, it seems it is one-way love. Love has many facets. No need it should End in Relationship. Friendship (not bringing in sister / brother relationship as an excuse) is bettter.
It depends.
This is my 2 cents!
2007-07-25 00:48:45 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, but it's better to hear that early on. Imagine marrying someone and they say that to you five years in. OUCH.
2007-07-25 00:16:54 · answer #3 · answered by collynn 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
guys listen a true story... i was not totally interested in her but u know she was pretty..i have heard several times from my frieds that she was expecting me to speak with her..i dont have a fear of rejection...i directly talk to them..anyway a morning i sat next to her in the bus and said good morning..and she also replied good morning..and i just attended to say sth but she asked "have we met before?"..i started to laugh out loud...she was kinda excited i guess thats why she acted like that..because when she understood what she has just said ,she turned to red...poor girl...
2007-07-25 00:30:36 · answer #4 · answered by ephesusjazz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not the worst but bad enough.
2007-07-25 00:21:55 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is straight out Rejection with a capital R, that hurts!!!!
2007-07-25 00:15:29 · answer #6 · answered by caligirl8 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yup, that sucks really bad!
2007-07-25 00:15:08 · answer #7 · answered by WinoJunko 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'd have to say that would be horrid to hear.
2007-07-25 00:14:41 · answer #8 · answered by AxisofOddity 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yeah ouch!!!!
2007-07-25 00:16:08 · answer #9 · answered by ausblue 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well, it is bad but not the worst......
2007-07-25 00:16:41 · answer #10 · answered by Helen 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋