I never showed any attention to anyone else but him and i am 18, he is 25. He sas that he is so scared to loose me but if this gonna go on like that he will definetely loose me. I want him to trust me. He says he trusts me but he doesnt trust other ppl... i do get jealous but i never go thru limits and control myself, why cant he do the same?
2007-07-25 00:00:15 · 5 answers · asked by cutebrunettte 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Because as your name says you are a cute brunette. But seriously, tell him that "if this gonna go on like that he will definetely loose me. I want him to trust me" Control is learned he just has to learn it. It will take time. Are you willing to give him that? If not move on. If so be patient & try not to give him any reason to be jealous. Tell him,You can't control anyone but yourself no matter how hard you try, & you can't control what other guys do at all so let it be.
2007-07-25 00:17:22 · answer #1 · answered by thepeacelover01 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For one reason, and one reason only... HE'S A MAN! HAHAHAHA. Seriously, I'm kind of in the same boat here, got a boyfriend who is super jealous of anyone else that has my attention, no matter who they are, what sex they are, etc. I just explain to him, sometimes not so nicely, that he's got to stop being this way or he WILL lose me. He has been working on this and is getting better. Explain to your guy how his actions make you feel and that he could possibly push you away by acting that way. It jut might help. Good Luck!
2007-07-25 00:06:57 · answer #2 · answered by Angie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well... male and female jealousy are of a different nature altogether... when he is insecure... all you need to do is to smile and look into his eyes and say... babe... i love no one else in the world but u...
what men in love dun like is to see other men putting a smile on the face of the woman they love...
have you sounded wistful while talking about other men? or to other men? have you smile while talking about other men or to other men?
men look out for small signals like these... the most important thing for a man is that they want to be the one and only one that can put that beautiful smile on your face...
pushing him away while he is insecure will only make things worse... when a man is insecure... all he needs is a little love and adoration from you... it takes time but it will get better...
hope it helps... cheers
2007-07-25 00:35:59 · answer #3 · answered by sperio 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because he is needy and insecure, probably has a low threshold of self-esteem...
and probably why he's not with someone more his own age..
there is nothing wrong with your age difference, but when a person is as needy as he is, i'm sure his "issues" are why.... hugs
2007-07-25 00:21:54 · answer #4 · answered by letterstoheather 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not you, he's insecure with himself.
2007-07-25 00:04:04 · answer #5 · answered by lillulu460 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋