Whenever I go to places and I come back and he asks me what I did and I forget some minor parts he accuses me of acting suspicious and thinks I'm up to something when I'm not.
2007-07-24 19:43:48 · 12 answers · asked by Satan H 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
That's exciting, your bf takes so much interest in how you spent your time when away.
Just state that there are no basis of his suspicion and he should stop running his horses of imagination.
2007-07-24 19:53:01 · answer #1 · answered by Goldman 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's feeling like the big man now he's had you. And that you are like his little woman so he can do what he wants to you now. No one who loves you would be that cruel to you. I mean, you aren't rushing to point out his faults, are you, because you care about him and dont want to hurt him. I think you have to realise that he doesn't feel that way about you. He obviously sees you as more of a possession than a person who is important to him. When you spoke about breaking up, you were trying to make him be nicer to you, but all he says is "alright" because he knows you wont do it. THIS, what you are going through now, is the reason you need to wait until you really really know someone, and have seen their reactions to a lot of situations, before you give them this much power over you. You need to know you can trust someone before you let them have anything they can use against you. In this case, you are afraid he will go and tell everyone that you are crap at giving head and you will be ashamed in front of everyone. So maybe you shouldnt give it out so easily? If I were you, I would break up with this guy, and tell everyone that it is because he's terrible in bed. Get there first. He deserves it, he has been cruel to you. Then learn not to be so easy, next time.
2016-05-17 23:15:18 · answer #2 · answered by blanch 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
UH OH--a manipulative abusive personality--you better move on--or learn to box or shoot a gun--he will only get worse in later life. The beatings you will get for telling bad stories--he is a creep--I can spot the type a mile away. he is not worth it--he is dangerous--MOVE ON_SISTER. Don't believe me??? Just wait till the next time--I bet he grabs you or shakes you or smacks you--just wait--you'll see. Get rid of this bum.HELLO--did you get what I am saying???
2007-07-24 19:49:47 · answer #3 · answered by fire_inur_eyes 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obviously he's insecure with himself about you and especially losing you. Either he's not ready for a relationship because he's not secure enough with himself or for some reason he's not very trusting. Maybe he wants more attention and reassurance that you want him.
Talk to him about it. Seriously, if you can't communicate, this relationship will go no where.
2007-07-24 19:48:49 · answer #4 · answered by clea lou. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him to stop asking if all he wants to do is tear apart your answers and find fault. Ask HIM what HE is doing, because people who accuse all the time usually are guilty themselves - that should stop this nonsense.
2007-07-24 20:15:44 · answer #5 · answered by BikerChick 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's too clingy to be in a relationship with a woman right now. That's a red flag, and I suggest you take it now rather than later.
2007-07-24 19:48:28 · answer #6 · answered by wizball 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sounds paranoid. If you arent doing anything just reassure him and tell him not to be such a woosy. Maybe his last gf cheated on him.
2007-07-24 19:46:59 · answer #7 · answered by bluegirl6 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He might not trust you fully, but i think he just wants to know what u did cuz he cares about you. Im the same way with my girlfriend, but not cuz i dont trust her, just cuz i dont want anything to happen to her
2007-07-24 19:47:27 · answer #8 · answered by Joseph C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Either he is just insecure and jealous, or he is cheating and feeling guilty, so he accuses you too!!
2007-07-24 19:47:33 · answer #9 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He's hella jealous. You need to tell him to check hisself before he wreckes hisself. Boys get like that, it's up to you if you can put up with it.
2007-07-24 19:47:14 · answer #10 · answered by Cieeeee <3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋