Okay, so this one chick my boyfriend dated like 5 years ago is apparenty still in love with him. She lives in a totally different state and is pregnant... She was really good friends with his mother... so of course they went to her baby shower. By the way, she lives in Arizona (going to school there), and we live in California. So apparently when they were leaving she whispered in his ear that she wishes the kid was his... My guess is whoever got her pregnant to begin with is a worthless piece is sh-- like she is. But if you got the chance to see her and talk to her what would you do and tell her?
2007-07-24 19:41:52 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
AND she is going to do whatever she can to get him back knowing that he hates her.
2007-07-24 19:45:28 · update #1
If she was out somewhere and you and you man are there, I would not say anything but hi. The thing that will run all over her is if you all are sitting close and act all romantic and in love, you know maybe kiss him one good time, and flirt with him in front of her. I mean don't over do it, but just little things like that. That would be good. It would in a way be saying yeah, look I won because I am not a crazy slu* like you are. That would get her good.
2007-07-24 19:49:52 · answer #1 · answered by Prof. Dave 7 · 5⤊ 0⤋
The reason you 'hate' this girl is that you feel insecure about her. I don't blame you. She is playing games.
Making a big issue out of it to him is not going to help. Men hate that crap. Besides there is a reason they are not together. There is a reason he is with you now - he chose you.
She is not a worthless piece of **** -she is just silly and immature and playing games with him.
The best thing you can do is to make your relationship with him wonderful. The best revenge is happiness. Whatever you do, don't let this girl cause problems between you two -have a great time with him - show him how mature and what a fun loving, secure and great girlfriend you are.
You cannot control anything around you - you can only control how you react and act - so be grown up and remind him every day of why he chose you.
2007-07-25 02:50:57 · answer #2 · answered by Olivereindeer 5 · 3⤊ 1⤋
I would ignore her she isn't worth it also you said your boyfriend hates her so I see no point to respond to her stupidy don't waste your time on people like that
Oh and that girl would have never been able to get close enough to wisper in my man's ear. There is no way in hell I would let my man go across state to an ex's baby shower just because his mom liked her. BULL **** I would tell his mom she was interfering with ya'lls relationship and needed to but out when it concerned his exs also
2007-07-25 02:48:38 · answer #3 · answered by Hey 2 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Well thats a tough question because really she poses a threat if your boyfriend is allowing her to. Don't get me wrong, I'm sure I'd have a few choice words for her anyway, but the fact still remains that your boyfriends family is keeping her around in ways. I know its their perogative, but doesn't it seem fishy to you? It seems pretty fishy to me and the first person I'd go to, to help me figure out a solution would be your boyfriend. If he doesn't help matters, and you'll know in your heart if he helps or not, then it may be time to investigate.
2007-07-25 02:47:49 · answer #4 · answered by cindy h 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
No because that is not a reason to really hate someone. Nothing really is. If he hates her who cares. But if you think there is any chance he wants to talk to her then that's something else.
2007-07-25 02:54:02 · answer #5 · answered by Random 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
girl if she wasnt pregnant i would beat her down thats not right she shouldnt have done that she needs to move on and stop living in the past
2007-07-25 02:51:29 · answer #6 · answered by Bootylicious 2 · 3⤊ 1⤋
As long as she doesn't continue to do things like that to your boyfriend and he doesn't accept it, just ignore it. If she continues, ask your boyfriend to tell her to stop. If she still continues, confront her. Get on the phone with her if she is on it with your boyfriend.
2007-07-25 02:47:31 · answer #7 · answered by Dorphinoct 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
wish her and her baby a happy long life...praying for misery upon someone does nothing except keep you up at night..besides..it doesn't work; i've already tried
2007-07-25 02:45:42 · answer #8 · answered by jjols 2 · 5⤊ 0⤋
first of all...don't freak out! don't make scenes or argue with your boyfriend...that's exactly what she wants...you to stress over the situation and then break-up...keep it cool and don't neglect your man...act like nothing's happened...it's the only way to keep him....nobody wants a stressed girlfriend!!! she wants you to stress so dont give her the satisfaction
good luck honey
2007-07-25 02:50:29 · answer #9 · answered by Lizzie 1 · 4⤊ 2⤋
I would ask her nicely to please stop being disrespectful to to you. He is your boyfriend. And she is pregnant andneeds to focus on her baby and not your man. Try not to yell at her she is pregnant. But please tell her to kindly respect your wishes. Maybe even ask your boyfriend if he would say something to her. She wont stop unless you both say something.
2007-07-25 02:46:57 · answer #10 · answered by private1111 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋