Me & My Boyfriend Have Been Dating For A Little Over A Year Now & Its Like We Fight Everyday. Most Of The Time Its Over The Stupidest Stuff Too. & Sometimes I Feel Like Our Relationship Is Based On Sex...Cuz That Happens Pretty Much Everyday Too. When We Fight All He Does It Yell At Me & He'll Even Cuss When He's Yelling & it Really Scares Me. & I Always See Him Checking Out Other Girls. Always. I Know Guys Will Be Guys But. Sometimes I Think He Still Likes My Old Bestfriend Kristina Cause He Liked Her For 2 Years Even Tho She Didn't Like Him They Flirted Like Crazy & He Seen Her Naked..Which Totally Bothers Me. He Gets Mad When i Talk To Other Guys Or Check Out Other Guys But He Does It All The Time.
He Lies To Me Too. Which Kills Me Because I Would Never Lie To Him. I Really Love Him & He Really Loves Me. We've Broke Up Almost 3 Times In The Past 2 Months.
Whats Wrong?
2007-07-24 19:17:19 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
A Few Moths Ago We both Agreed To Stop Smoking Pot Cuz When I Would Me & Kristina Would Go & Get Pot & Just Smoke With A Bunch Of Random Dudes...Even Tho Nothing Would Happen. But he Ddin't Trust Her. So We Promised & Swore To Each Other We Wouldn't.
Then A Few nights Ago He Left To Get Wendys & His Friend Who Is A Drug Dealer Told Me That He Was Still Smoking Pot. He Had Lied To Me. He Broke The Promise & The Swear. So I Said Fine. & Then Me & Him Smoked A Bowl. When My boyfriend Found Out He Was Furious...But Then I Told Him I Knew He Had Lied To Me.
So He Swore On My Life He'd Never Do It Again. Well When We Were At This Party His FriendAsked Him To Put The Blunt Out For Him. So He Went & Did It. & On His Way Of Doing That He Took A Few Hits Of It.
After He Swore On My Life.
2007-07-24 19:22:24 · update #1
I Love Him More Than Anything He's The Only Thing I Care About.
He Says He Feels The Same Way. But All He Does Is Hurt Me.
Emotionally. Not Physically
2007-07-24 19:24:47 · update #2
It Really hurt Me The Other Day His 23 Year Old Cousin Called Me A ***** Right To My Face & In Front Of My Boyfriend. & All He Did Was Stand There He Didn't Say Anything To His Coudin Or Nothing. 7 Then When I Said Something To My Boyfriend About It All He Could Sa Was...Why So My Cousin Would Kick My A$$.
Idk. Maybe Its Stupid But I Take Things Way To Seriously &Get Offended Very Easily.
2007-07-24 19:30:04 · update #3
Well, communication does not seem to be a problem here. This relationship does not seem to be heading in the right direction. If all these things you say are true, then something IS definitely wrong. Just be honest with him, even if it asks for another "fight". It's best to settle things and set your foot down, rather than hoping for the best. We only live once, so we should find the parter that is meant for us.
2007-07-24 19:22:57 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Now the hole cussing and yelling is a big problem. Just say i think your life would be a lot better if me and you weren't together and call it quites
2007-07-25 02:25:20 · answer #2 · answered by MELMEL 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get rid of him and stay single for a while. Find out who you are and who you want to be with... Relationship not sex and set your standards high, very high..
2007-07-25 02:21:14 · answer #3 · answered by bobbo342 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
niether ofyou are putting what you need to in the relationship. its trust commitment making EACH OTHER happy working together you guys arent doing that.
2007-07-25 02:22:00 · answer #4 · answered by missylukeandlissy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
omg he soundz abusive && plus he's seen ur friend naked? oh hell no tell him its over
2007-07-25 02:23:23 · answer #5 · answered by Fallen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump the jerk!!! You deserve better.
2007-07-25 02:20:53 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I really hope this is not Stasia......I have no clue. Are you cheating?
2007-07-25 02:22:18 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Head. Give it to him.
2007-07-25 02:21:53 · answer #8 · answered by Triumvirate 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋