Im 13 and I think it is time to have Sex with my boyfriend. Should I. We have been going out with 2 Months
2007-07-24 19:13:41 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
wow...whats wrong with kids these days?
2007-07-24 19:17:20 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
The act of sex is a very life-changing thing. Personally, I hate to jump into bed with anyone I don't know extremely well. And don't think it won't change things between you two, because it will. Either for good or bad.
While there is no set amount of time you should wait, be sure to discuss it between the two of you and make sure it is something you both feel comfortable doing, and that it is not just something you feel like you have to do to keep him happy
Finally, for god sakes use protection. And if you don't know how, or he doesn't know how, either ask someone or don't do it. 13 is way to young to have a child to worry about.
2007-07-25 02:26:49 · answer #2 · answered by tech_guy_towt 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no. too soon. too young. it gets you more attached to that person than you should you'll most likely end up getting even more hurt when you break up. and the more people you have sex with the less meaning it has. plus theres the risk of getting pregnant nothing is 100% safe besides not having sex. do you think you could raise a baby right now?
2007-07-25 02:21:03 · answer #3 · answered by miltz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ah, NO. At 13? Man, wait a while...I am pretty sure it is a good idea not to do this, but it really sounds like you have your mind made up already. You are pretty young to even consider this, if nothing else wait another 2-3 years, if not longer.
2007-07-25 02:18:39 · answer #4 · answered by djbillietee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My honest opinion, no. I don't think you are ready to deal with the consequences about sex. I don't think you are mature enough to handle the situation and I'm not talking about the act. I'm talking about the emotion side. I'm sorry to say but guys at that age really don't care to much about a relationship with emotion they are just ready for sex and that is it. Okay not 100% of them. So emotionally you think you are ready but I have a feeling someone is going to get hurt (emotion) and I don't think it's going to be him.
2007-07-25 02:20:28 · answer #5 · answered by B.J. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Save it for someone you really care about, and save it for when you aren't breaking the law by having sex. Your boyfriend (and you depending on your bfs age) can be charged with statutory rape since you are not of legal age. I am sure you would rather not have your boyfriend goto jail because he had sex with you.
2007-07-25 02:20:46 · answer #6 · answered by Tim 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmmm . . . i wonder what i have to say to get reported for abuse . . . well . . . i guess at 13, 2 months must be a really long time to be dating . . . >_> if you wanna play the game, you better be ready for the consequences. game = sex consequences = baby
if you're not ready for the consequences, are still horny, get a toy or do oral. at least you can't get a kid that way.
2007-07-25 02:20:42 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No way! your too young not only could you get an std, pregnant, or regret it for the rest of your life. but it also could cost you a whole lot me by giving you a reputation of a $!()*@. also remember that more than likely your not going to be with this person when you get older and do you want this person to be the person you remember the rest of you life as your first. and besides virgintiy rocks!
2007-07-25 02:21:47 · answer #8 · answered by loc 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LMAO...no...thats just wrong
2 months and ur only 13?!?!
jesus chr*st...what are they teaching these kids in school now-a-days...WAIT U FRIGGIN HORMONE ENRAGED TEENAGER!!!
2 months is not a long time, you know nothing about love yet...and it wont be special
2007-07-25 02:17:27 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
NO you shouldn't even have a bf... Do some growing up. Ask that question when you are out of college and getting married.
2007-07-25 02:29:51 · answer #10 · answered by bobbo342 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Them numbers just keep rolling backwards!!! we'll have to start teaching sex ed in 3rd soon!
2007-07-25 02:22:08 · answer #11 · answered by BoBo 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋