pleaz help!!!
2007-07-24 15:58:52 · 31 answers · asked by rhonda a 3 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
My husband and I are soul mates, so yes I do love him, we were blessed with identical twin girls four weeks ago, Ruth and Rachael
2007-07-24 16:05:15 · answer #1 · answered by TigerLily 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I really love my hubby. Yes, I'm happy to be married.
I was fortunate to have married my best friend. I wouldn't want it any other way. He's gives me balance, a shoulder to cry on, and he's my cheerleader when I'm low. We share the same basic goals and values, yet we're different enough to learn from each other. We treat each other with love and respect. There isn't anyone else that I'd want to grow old with.
We could have been happy if we hadn't actually gotten married but I like the feeling of a commitment between us. We both value honor and keeping our promises so our vows were (and still are!) very important to us. Life is always changing. So it's comforting to know that as long as we're both alive, we'll have a best friend to share our lives with.
I feel very blessed.
2007-07-24 23:56:16 · answer #2 · answered by Witchy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have been married for a very long time, most likely just about as long as God himself has been around. And yes, I am happy and I love him more today than I did when I was young.
However, love does change and it does evolve, as we learn about people we love, we also have to learn that we can not change them therefore we accept them. There have been many times in my life that I found myself wondering why I was still married, but then as I worked through the situation either within myself or with my husband, our love, devotion and respect grew stronger. Today, we enjoy our youth through our memories of past, and now with the birth of a new grand daughter, the beauty and wonder of love rekindle as we see the images of the love for our daugther when she was born.
If things are hard..........remember the hard times are what make the good and lasting times so worth the growing through the experience. I have so many young people who love the idea that I have been married to ONE man for all these years....you can do it too. Just do it and don't put too much credit on what others say you should do.
Marriage is between TWO people...not a 3rd, TV, a book or a
magazine, adviser...love, forgive and then forget ....
2007-07-24 23:10:18 · answer #3 · answered by kickinupfunf 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I love my husband very much. He is my favorite person in the whole world. He can also sometimes upset me more than any one else--that's part and parcel of being emotionally close. It's worth it.
When you look at people who have been happily married for a long time, be aware that their happiness comes from sticking it out during the rockier times and continuing to build the relationship.
If you need help with your marriage, there are many excellent Christian resources out there, but it's difficult to know what to recommend without receiving more specific direction from you. Are you married, or considering getting married? Are you in a situation where the other person is abusive or addicted to something harmful? Are you just having a hard time communicating? Which aspect of the relationship do you need help with?
As a general recommendation, http://www.loveandrespect.com/ is a marriage ministry I have found helpful.
Also, Joyce Meyer at http://www.joycemeyer.org/ has excellent teachings (radio and t.v. programs, books, teaching tapes and Cds) on Christian maturity, including teachings on marriage and on the value of living by the Word of God first rather than living by the changing variable of your emotions.
God bless you!
2007-07-24 23:21:17 · answer #4 · answered by Rella 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I really, really, love my husband and I'm am very happy to be married to him. He is my best friend, my partner, my lover, and my acting coach. He is the only person in the world that I trust implicitly...no matter what. We are both actors and he had a three month gig in Sweden.... Know what, I wasn't ever worried about it.
I'm not saying that we never had any disagreements or problems but, even in the midst of yelling with frustration, I would never have traded him for the world and I know that he loves me with all his heart. We often say that we were truly blessed to find each other...because no one else could deal with us.
We have been married for 21 years (a second marriage for each of us) and nothing will ever come between us, of that I am certain.
2007-07-24 23:14:31 · answer #5 · answered by Margaret T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My husband and I have been married for seven years and together a total of eleven years. We are still very much in love. There are times when we're so tired (we have two small children) that we just get through the day, but we always still take the time to talk about our day and say I love you.
2007-07-24 23:08:39 · answer #6 · answered by B 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi Rhonda. I hope you are doing ok. Since you ask, yes. I am extremely happy to be married to the last wonderful man that was left on Earth! and i am also deeply in love with my husband and have been all our years together.
2007-07-24 23:05:53 · answer #7 · answered by kelstar 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, absolutely, more than anything in the world, and yes, I am very happy to be married. Even though we were together for many years before we married, there is still a subtle difference now.
2007-07-24 23:15:52 · answer #8 · answered by Nandina (Bunny Slipper Goddess) 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am very happy to be married and I love my husband very much. That doesn't mean every moment is a Hallmark card. I think people get the wrong idea about what marriage is supposed to be. It is real life and there is no one else I would rather share it with than him.
2007-07-24 23:04:05 · answer #9 · answered by sparty035 3 · 4⤊ 0⤋
be relax you will have some moment that you think you hate your husband even your self it`s all normal you should know no one can be happy all the time or miserable all the time we always have some of both of them this is the life honey i`m married &have 3 kids (i`m a women) you know my husband ex wife she doesn`t leave him she alwyas try to has him or tell me some thing made me unhappy so ehat you think sorry it just happen i wasn`t want to tell sorry agin i hope you can find wayto be happy all the time
2007-07-24 23:14:16 · answer #10 · answered by ***** 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋