i am a good looking girl i get hit on by guys twice my age which isnt what im looking for but the guys my age dont seem to step it up like the guys twice my age im so sick of seeing happy couples because thats something i want and i just want to know if its me and how i can be one of those happy couples?
2007-07-24 15:31:37 · 31 answers · asked by aeriolf 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I have always had older men hitting on me. It was not at all wanted.
Don't worry, when the time is right, you will have a good man sweep you off your feet. You can go to single places if you are old enough to meet people, like church single functions.
You should be happy that the other couples seem happy. You will feel that way one day too. Get to know guys as friends first. That way you will not rush into anything. I am almost 40 and I have never been married. I wanted to wait for the right guy. I think I have finally found him. We were friends for almost 2 years before we dated. It is better that way. He is my age.
Best wishes to you. I will pray for you.
2007-07-24 15:37:47 · answer #1 · answered by Stephanie F 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all,
happiness is very simply defined:
Gratitude (appreciation).
That being said, you need to look at your own life and decide what makes you the happiest (and don't think about pleasure or lack of stress, these are not happiness).
A happy couple possesses the following traits or qualities:
1. Consideration for the other person's feelings, desires, and interests.
2. A willingness to share your feelings desires and with your signficant other.
3. Arguments. ( I know this sounds weird but all happy couples I know of argue sometimes, its the way humans communicate sometimes)
4. Spending time together.
I firmly believe that virtually any 2 people can be happy together as long as they work at the relationship.
The only way a relationship can fail is if you break up. People that stay married a long time, stay together for just that reason, they stayed together and worked out their problems.
When you find someone you love (not just are infatuated with), you need to be of the mind that offending that person or hurting that person's feelings is the worst thing you could possibly.
you should always choose that person over your friends or anything else.
Hope that helps.
P.S. I have been married for 4 years and I am in a very happy marriage ( and yes we do argue sometimes)
2007-07-24 22:41:51 · answer #2 · answered by El Gordo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well this question makes me wonder how old you are. when i was 14and up older guys hit on me becasue i looked older and was pretty...but they sensed that i dind't know i was pretty and i was insecure..so they were looking for sex...guys your age sense that you are insecure too. and tey just want a cool girl to hang out with or something else, who knows (don't know your age) anyway..basically life doesn't revolv around guys and relationships..and who's happy now may not be happy tomorrow..so once you find what makes you happy on your own...then the right guy will come along and see you for you..but until you know who you are...and what you want...a relationship is not the answer.
2007-07-24 22:37:49 · answer #3 · answered by ArmyAngel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because guys twice your age have lived their lives and they do not care if they get turned down,guys your age still take a turn down personally,why don`t you try to step it up with guys your age?You would be amazed.
2007-07-24 22:36:22 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
nothing is wrong with you, just where you look for guys. if you want a guy closer to your age get ready ofr immaturity and idiocy. older guys might be what you should go for. especially if the younger ones don't come up to scratch. happiness is not about age. if you find someone and you like them then biuld on that.
2007-07-24 22:37:27 · answer #5 · answered by frecklegirl145 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe guys your age are too immature to express their feelings for you. Most guys want you to make the first move. So if you see a guy you like, get to know him, and who knows? Maybe he's been crushing on you. And if it ends up that a certain guy doesn't like you, he's probably not worth it anyway. I say, just get out there and make yourself noticed.
2007-07-24 22:35:27 · answer #6 · answered by nel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm sure you are a beautiful person on the outside as well as on the inside, but you must realize that you cannot rush love. the best relationships usually happen when you are not searching for them. what you can do is begin by taking good care of yourself, and by keeping active. the more stuff you do, the more chances you will be able to meet guys.
2007-07-24 22:36:58 · answer #7 · answered by sportguy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay your trying too hard and your frightening everyone off.your obviously very mature and thats why your looking for the older guy[sometimes not a good thing as you may be looking for a father figure]but try to just go out and enjoy yourself and life with out the hound dog syndrome[wanting to be too friendly with everybody and wants a master to follow home----too daunting--quite scary if your a guy] and you will be head over heels in love and partnered up before you know it.good luck and stop trying too hard,
2007-07-24 22:42:53 · answer #8 · answered by helly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One thing you don't mention- and you shouldn't- is your age. Don't rush things. You have a complete life ahead of you and other things you probably should be concentrating on right now. Meeting the right man will happen eventually. When you look you won't find. The best relationships happen by "accident."
2007-07-24 22:41:38 · answer #9 · answered by DrillMaster 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the little boys are scared. and the older ones want to take advantage of you. stay single for a while until the guys around you are mature. dont just go out with someone because you feel like its your obligation. if you start out like that you'll end up like those creepy, needy, women. they cant fall asleep without some guy in their bed.
2007-07-24 22:37:10 · answer #10 · answered by philly cheese steak 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋