Do I look ignorant to him?

Question

This guy is my work colleage, and I don't know him for too long, we have been hanging out a bit lately. he is busy writing his thesis for the school, and I have asked him if he wants to play table tennis together over the msn, and he said he can't go, still get school thing to be done, and give me a smile face sign. so, I told him I will be going alone with a smile face sign even though I was kidda dissapointed. later on, we never talked again. yesterday I saw him online at work, so, I guess he is still busy for his school thing, but I am hesitating if I should make the move to ask him if he is all right lately. Do I look that I dont care at all? since I have been hurt before, I feel something is stopping me from expressing my regards to a guy, what should I do? and what do you think?

Answer 1

DEPENDS SO MUCH ON YOU!!! Really it does, see we want to hold on to the fact that love is the specialness in a relationship when in actuality it is the APPLICATION of that love that is special. We all love! We all feel like its special! But how many of us actually act on what that love makes us feel? Thats what your dealing with right now, you feel (love) this guy, you feel that he needs space to do his work but at the same time you don't want him to feel from you, that your taking advantage of it as a way to avoid him.... Lets just say this, in the case of the heart it is ALWAYS better to act, then not act at all, except with jealousness or anger, but as long as the choice is to be heart felt and honest your always in the write! NOW GO TALK TO THAT BOOK WORM!!!! And also the thesis process is the single most stressful time, so keep it light, and just make him laff and reassure yourself that he isn't feeling like your pushing him away....