i like this girl and for awhile i was sure she actually liked me too. she would always give me random compliments or say i was cute. but recently she went to Wisconsin to some camp and called me a couple times from there... she sounded different. and when she got back she stopped acting like she liked me. and then the next day she had pictures of her hugging some other dude on her facebook. what am i supposed to do.. and i know a lot of you will say that pictures and her mood change does not mean and thing, but one of her friends said that at the camp her and that guy were dancing together and spending a lot of time with each other. my look on it is she just wanted attention. ??
2007-07-24 15:13:05 · 21 answers · asked by shdby298 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
most likely she did like you but when she was at camp she found someone she liked more and decided that she was over you.
2007-07-24 15:18:05 · answer #1 · answered by crazy girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh man. This is easy. She liked you. Past tense. Now she likes him. I just hope you live far from Wisconsin and she grows bored with someone that isn't nearby.
I met a girl online and we talked for weeks and were planning our first actual meeting because we seemed perfect for each other, and then she went camping with some friends. When she came back, she was totally different - wasn't sure about wanting to meet, didn't call every day and night like before - and finally I asked, "Did you meet a guy while camping?" She did. And that was the end.
Maybe you'll have better luck, but it's pretty clear to see what happened. But it doesn't mean she played you. She just met someone else. And camp is fun. Those types of meetings are more exciting than someone from school, work or your neighborhood.
2007-07-24 22:19:30 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd say while she was away, she found someone she found interesting & spent some time w/him. BUT, now it's back home & back to reality time. Is she treating you noticability different? She sure did get attention from it, & obviously you noticed it. Just see how she acts in the future on the whole. Vacations are just that, a change of paces, places, & faces. See how long the change lasts. It's hard enuf to keep a relationship going when you're rite there let alone w/a distance between you. Chances are, this w/be a vacation w/memories & w/be put away until the next vacation time comes. I would try not to react to it as I'm sure that's why she even showed it to anyone. Otherwife I would imagine everything w/just go back to normal again & fall into place where it was before she went away.
2007-07-24 22:29:59 · answer #3 · answered by Sue C 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I tried real hard to find any reason why you would think this girl was playing you to no avail.Outside of what you called "random compliments", there is no indication you guys were even platonic friends much less on your way to having a romantic one.In that light, she can do whatever she pleases without you feeling slighted.If you like her ( which it appears you do from the jealousy ), then approach her, tell her , and see what happens. You might be pleasantly surprised.In the interim, don't go acting like a jealous boyfriend with her. Unless there is more to your story than you have revealed, this girl has done you no wrong.
2007-07-24 22:25:43 · answer #4 · answered by abbeycoolit 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO. It is true... what you stated that.. just cause she put up some pics of some dude and her hugging doesn't mean she doesn't like you anymore. It's not like their going out.. she was in wisconsin.. and she's probably making you jealous. I'm a girl.. and girls do these things to play games... I play games.. but I don't try making people mad and jealous. Just start ignoring her and see what happens. Don't get pissy at her either.. just ignore her and pretend shes not there.
2007-07-24 22:19:13 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2007-07-24 22:17:20 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best thing you can do for yourself is ignore her just enough to bug her, act like you don't care, but make it to subtle. You gotta still seem somewhat interested.. And if it happens it does and if it doesn't move on, it's life. Never know a couple year's down the line she could be back. Happens all the time!
2007-07-24 22:25:36 · answer #7 · answered by *Clea* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, unless you were in an actual relationship then it shouldn't be surprising that someone might come along that would sweep her attention away. It's perfectly normal and while I'm sure it's really disappointing for you, some compliments do not make a commitment.
2007-07-24 22:21:30 · answer #8 · answered by Winter Arcane 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to literally GET ON IT! She def likes you because she called you on the phone while away. You need to let her know that you like her as much as to be her boyfriend. She might have gotten inpatient. Just let her know that it made you kind of jealous because you really really like her and that you miss her while she was away and the whole nine yards. Yea she might have a quick summer love but YOU need to get on top of her page.
Good luck with her hon
2007-07-24 22:21:29 · answer #9 · answered by Pete 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it's not about being played. Don't let that get to you. What you do is still respect a girl as a young lady and move on. I am sure that you are a catch and there are plenty other girls who would of liked to been in her shoes. Move on and don't let your feeling get hurt, I am sure that you are young and handsome, and you will find a girl who likes you as much as you do her. GOOD-LUCK!!!!
2007-07-24 22:19:56 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmmm..She most likely liked you at one point but when she went to camp she found another guy who she liked more..or maybe shes just a flirt.
2007-07-24 22:21:08 · answer #11 · answered by Alicia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋