i am nice, pretty, outgoing (most of the time) dont have alot of confidence in talking to people for sake they may not like me. and you know, i cant really talk to guys all tht well .u can tell some of them like me, and its kinda obvious i like them. one of my friends even told a guy i liked them just to see what he would say! but as for me, i just cant talk to the ones i like. i am not in the popular group , but i have a few guy friends. and sometimes i talk to guys in class for a conversation, but start liking them i cant talk to them or my face gets all red.please help? i am going to camp next weeek at my school and i want to talk to some. any tips or good lucks?
2007-07-24 15:12:13 · 16 answers · asked by Jennifer 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just approach them and start a conversation ; )
2007-07-24 15:16:23 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just start talking to them about the first thing the pops in your mind, and if your face turns red, just act like nothing has changed and keep talking. I bet that they do not even notice, about your face. They will most likely see the cool person that you really are. so good luck!
2007-07-24 22:20:25 · answer #2 · answered by nicole 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmm... you should just go out there and start talking if your face gets red then so be it. It happens to everyone and well you just can't let that stop you or else you will never find anyone. So Good Luck with everything!!
2007-07-24 22:15:34 · answer #3 · answered by deadxxangels 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be who you are. A guy will notice you are shy and most likely find that either attractive or just walk away lol. But you can make it happen. Guys are great uplifter's. You should have no problem in finding a guy. Just like I said be urself. Good luck and have fun =)
2007-07-24 22:17:48 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi,
well I used to be like that too. But you should just talk to him. I know it's easier said than done but what's the worst thing that could happen , they don't like you? oh well you'll find a guy that likes you just as much as you like them.
Some tips are don't be too giggly
& just be like calm & try to be confident because guys think confidence is sexy.
2007-07-24 22:45:27 · answer #5 · answered by ... 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok girl, well first of all u have guy friends so just talk to them...like as a fiend try to get way more comfertable around guys who are just friends, and maybe then you'll feel alot better about yourself! and about the redness in your face..ugh same here!! im not exaclty for sure about that one...
2007-07-24 22:16:19 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
understand it can be very important that you can speak your mind...if you don't persons will judge you by looks and body language and there is so much more to you than that. Step outside the box....speak up..it may not and probably not come out exactly the way you intend but it will be a start ..and it will allow you to present yourself better with other opportunities.
2007-07-24 22:18:54 · answer #7 · answered by Goodspeed 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the best way to get to ANYBODY is by humor try making people laugh. like smart comments. it worked for me. o and keep it kool aight. try not to laugh really hard a simple laugh it's all you need. don't back down. let's say some people r sneaking out of camp at midnight to hang. i would suggest not to go but if u know them go 4 it. hope it works :)
2007-07-24 22:23:43 · answer #8 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Confidence is sexy, and required for all the good men that you will meet. Only the unconfident men will be drawn towards your lack of confidence. So, you need to work on yourself, and your lack of confidence before you are ready to move on to a true relationship.
2007-07-24 22:17:20 · answer #9 · answered by box of rain 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just relax and be yourself if yourself is shy don't try so hard to go out of that box.
You obviously won't feel comfortable around very outgoing people; so don't push to be around those types. The shy kids aren't that bad.
Are you?
2007-07-24 22:16:49 · answer #10 · answered by Indypendence 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just go up to someone and say hi i'm so and so who are u after that the conversation will just flow i've tried it and now have tons of friends
2007-07-24 22:16:21 · answer #11 · answered by HollyW 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋