you have absolutely no interest in anyone? (dating/relationship wise)
It's weird- i've always had someone to care about or think about and now i've lost interest in the people i used to like and i dont have even any thought of someone i would even like to like.
its the first time in my life ive ever felt this way
ever happened to you?
and do you think you can be happy to the fullest extent without having a significant other?
2007-07-24 15:02:55 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just realize that you, as a person, is always growing. So do not be afraid by this phase. It is natural. One of the greatest gifts in life is that nothing lasts forever, and this too will pass. So go with it. It will pass. And cupid's arrow will strike you one day when you least expect it.
2007-07-24 15:08:41 · answer #1 · answered by box of rain 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋
I've felt that way a several times actually. I definitely think you can be happy without a significant other. I know a few single people who have been "alone" all their lives, and they're fine with it. It's all about finding things to fill your life with.
Think of life like a suitcase when you're on a trip. Yours won't contain the same things as someone else's. You'll pack different clothes than anyone else; you might bring your straightener, while someone else might bring a bunch of books, and someone else might bring running shoes. Similarly, you'll have different people in your life than anyone else, and they'll be of varying importance. A man in your life might be one of the bigger things in your suitcase; but someone else might pack all their good friends, and not feel the need to put in a significant other too. That's such a weird analogy but I think it works.
2007-07-24 22:17:02 · answer #2 · answered by csbp029 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes I have been there a few times. It felt great!! I could focus more on myself at that point. Do not feel guilty about it. Your mind and body are telling you to take care of yourself for a while, and when the time is right again, someone special will come into your life. Have fun!!!
2007-07-24 22:26:50 · answer #3 · answered by lovesick 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oh believe me I have been there. I have been single for two years now and up until about 6 months ago I didnt want to get involved with anyone. Sometimes you need that time alone to get your own head straight before you can involve anyone else in your life.
In my case I had a bad breakup that shook me and it took me a long time to get back to a place where I wanted to start looking for someone. I think if that is how you are feeling right now you need to just go with it for now. Learn to get comfortable in your own skin and the right people will start to come into your life.
2007-07-24 22:13:17 · answer #4 · answered by heath0827 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
yea, that have happened to me for the better part of my life. Person that I loved once, i lost interest in them, through no mistake of theirs. The people that i thought of so colse, have disapointed me, have killed my faith in them.
There was a time that i abslutly loved the lonlyness that i once loath enough to start writhing diaries!!! I Just wish i could fly sky high without any backlash what so ever. But still there are times that I miss someone, someone that have never came to my life, someone, that no one else have even been close to being. IDK. I miss someone that i never meet..
So, yea. feelings are normal, i think.
2007-07-25 22:17:59 · answer #5 · answered by Danny's Not Cool 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes i did. i felt great. why? because during that time i got to know myself as an individual then out of the blue came my bf (now my fiance').
2007-07-24 22:06:22 · answer #6 · answered by Ms. Lady 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
yes..sometime i just don't care about others and more concern about me, that's because i was really depress...are you feeling that way too? you should go on a vacation...relax and think open your eyes to see the world
2007-07-24 22:12:01 · answer #7 · answered by sunshine 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
If you can you'd be much better off.
2007-07-24 22:06:50 · answer #8 · answered by mosaic 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋