My girlfriend and I were invited to a party this weekend. I just found out i won't be able to go and my girlfriend might. I really don't feel comfortable at all with her going because she and her best friend will be the only two girls there and there will be about 10 other guys. One of them she used to like and three or four others don't have girlfriends. And I know her dad would flip out if he knew that she would be one of the only girls there.
Should I ask her not to go and explain that i'm uncomfortable with the whole situation? Is this alright to ask if i'm polite and tell her its up to her?
2007-07-24 14:41:49 · 6 answers · asked by triath91 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Tell her you trust her and everything you just don't trust the guys.
Tell her politely she can make her own decision and go or not, your just a little worried.
2007-07-24 14:48:55 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you trust her it should not be a problem. Let her do what she wants...if you really care about her. If she gets in trouble with her dad, that is her problem since she is responsible for herself. If she does something unfaithful, then she is not worth your time. I think you can tell her it makes you uncomfortable, then say, "But I trust you". See how she reacts. On a side note, girls do not really like it when guys tell them they don't want them to go places or do things because they think they will cheat. Just say the situation makes you uncomfortable because you wish you could be there. Say, "you're so hot and I'm scared those guys will hit on you!" and make sure you laugh when you say it, so she doesn't think you don't trust her.
2007-07-24 21:47:04 · answer #2 · answered by MrsKat 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
How would you feel if it was your girlfriend who couldn't go to a party, and you and a buddy were going to be the only guys with 10 girls? And how would you feel if she asked you not to go to this party? If it would bother you if she said she'd rather you not go to such a party, it's not very fair for you to ask her not to go.
Unless...there's something you know about the guys who will be at the party that makes you uncomfortable. If that's the case, you should tell your girlfriend that you absolutely trust her, but you don't trust THEM.
2007-07-24 21:49:55 · answer #3 · answered by VeggieTart -- Let's Go Caps! 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you say it nicely and so she understands right reason why...not that your jealous or worried but uncomfortable!
2007-07-24 22:10:59 · answer #4 · answered by hilaryfan25 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think its safe to tell her and explain that you don't feel comfortable. just ask politely and hopefully she'll understand. good luck!
2007-07-24 21:46:50 · answer #5 · answered by g0dsavethequeen9 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think its alright if you ask in a good way
2007-07-24 21:46:03 · answer #6 · answered by stay^influence+bollywood gal 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋