My female friends boyfriends go to the strip club and my friends hate it. My boyfriends goes to the strip club ( he does not think i know but i know) and i really don't care. I don't see it as cheating if a person go to the strip club. Sometime me and my female friends go to the strip club which is a total diffrent reason from men because we laugh at male strippers but men there turn on by strippers. Even though we have diffrent feelings towards it i don't see it as cheating as long as there not sleeping with the stripper or anyone eles. why do some women get mad when there boyfriends go to the strip club?
2007-07-24 14:35:42 · 20 answers · asked by Sammy B 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I see alot of you woman are saying because there looking at another womans body. But they do that to women that pass them by in the streets and theres not a stright man on earth that has not ever undressed a woman with his eyes.
2007-07-24 14:45:26 · update #1
to answer Jeannine question the reason why i don't tell him i know because it would probably spoil the fun for him thinking hes sneaking to see stripers with his friends. I never tell him or let him know when im going to see male strippers because it would not be has fun sneaking and doing it.
2007-07-24 14:50:02 · update #2
Some women like you said see it as cheating. Some women have a problem with self confidence. They think that because there boyfriend or husband goes to a strip club that it is because they are not pretty enough or sexy enough for their man. That is a bunch of b.s. The fact is guys like to see naked women and yeah it turns us on. There are some strip clubs that are shall we say a little more friendlier that others. I mean there is not sex that takes place but some of the female strippers will put different parts of their bodies right on and sometimes on the mans face. This is why I like to think that some women do not like them. I mean that is kinda gross when you think about it. The main reason is that these women feel that their man is doing this because she (his girl) no longer turns him on. That is just not true. Like the comedian said "hey if you've seen one naked that means.......you pretty much want to see the rest naked to" The funny thing is most strippers have great looking body's but have you ever seen some of their faces in the light, oh I have, and some just are not pretty at all. Some are however. Well That is why I think women do not like for their men to go to strip clubs. :)
2007-07-24 14:48:15 · answer #1 · answered by Prof. Dave 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree, it should not be a big deal. If there not sleeping with the strippers i would not care. And somebody made a comment about sometime men do have sex in the back rooms with the strippers, that won't happen unless the guy lets that happen and men do not have to go to a strip club to cheat. Another person made a comment saying if your man is going to a strip club you must be doing a bad job as a girl friend, well hunny i guess almost every woman in America is doing a bad job as a girl friend or wife because there are not that man men that do not go to strip clubs. Just because you don't know about it does not mean hes not doing. Also this whole respect thing, i just think men going to a strip club is just how men are being entertainerd. Does this entertaine women, no but it entertains men. Just because there throwing money at a naked woman does not mean they love you less, respect you less, or find you less attractive.
2007-07-24 17:26:56 · answer #2 · answered by Mia b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some women look to their man to be their knight in shining armor. They want someone to believe in and root for! They want to believe that their 'hero' is a person of integrity and honor. Perhaps these women get angry about the visits to the strip club b/c they don't think it's an honorable form of entertainment.
I know there's the old saying that men are going to be men. But I do know that there are a few of us ladies left that have to believe men can rise above the status quo. That there are still some men left out there that are honorable warriors at heart. Someone that's worth keeping the home fires burning for. Someone that will live a life worthy of a true ladies heart. kudos to the men I've just described and double kudos for the ladies out there that still believe in them!!
(PS: yea, I'm a hopeless romantic at heart.) :)
2007-07-24 15:00:27 · answer #3 · answered by o0megaphone0o 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think becuase the attention the men give the strippers, the girlfriends would like kind of attention. For guys out there it is pretty cool to find a girlfriend that likes to go to strip clubs for the amusement.
2007-07-24 14:39:28 · answer #4 · answered by thewanton19 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I've just recently been old enough to go. I get why women can be upset. For guys at a stip club, we are spending money faster than water coming out of faucet.
We are fantasizing about these woman sexually. If a guys says he doesn't get a major erection, he's lying.
When the girls lap dance us, the strip for us and are on top of us. We are putting our hands all over them. If you think a naked girl all over your guy and his hands all over her isn't cheating, you are the best Gf in the world.
There are "private" backrooms where the guys and stippers can be more alone and do more naughty things they don't do on the main floor. Guess what, sex does happen.
2007-07-24 14:42:31 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
The woman want their partners to be satisfied. They want the guys to look at them as they do with these strippers. Women just get jealous. They want to do whatever to get as much attention as possible. Along with men in a lot of similar cases. But a female wants to keep their partners happy, and they want them to enjoy what they have to offer to them.
2007-07-24 14:41:01 · answer #6 · answered by Samson 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's about respect towards me and our relationship. if he has to go see some other woman to get turned on or to full fill his fantasy then he isn't the one for me. it's not about being insecure...it's about respect. i can do a lot more than some stripper. A LOT more and still carry myself with respect and honor as a woman because I'm doing it for ONE man. the man that i love.
2007-07-24 14:39:03 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 0⤋
damn i wouldnt need a strip club {{even though i am underage}} if i wanted to see a girl in that way i would ask my girl to strip. i have heard that it is fun for the girl and usually ends up in a very intoment session afterwards
2007-07-24 14:43:10 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you must have one unsatisfied man if he has to go pay some woman to get turned on. you must not be doing your job as a gf to keep him satisfied. it's NOT about jealousy, insecurity, body issues or any of that mess. it's about respect. if you bf cant respect you then enjoy your pointless relationship. you both "sneak" behind each others back? seems to me you both don't need to be in a relationship. you have no trust or respect for each other.
2007-07-24 14:49:53 · answer #9 · answered by Ms. Lady 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Men, they meet woman like me who take them in the back room for a little xtra lunch money.. Strippers do well...we have kids to support!. What do you think we do after the doors close ...Its our afternoon delight.
2007-07-24 14:42:42 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋