I am totally head over heels this guy...
I am 22 he is 31, maybe the age is a big difference, but I don't care... He invited me over, and I went over, We hugged, and we were just sitting there, hugging, and he kept touching my hand, rubbing my arm.. (arm only ppl).. he didn't want to let go... and then he went in for the kiss.
I felt like he did like me... he wanted me to stay longer, but I had to go to work the next morning.. the thing is he livez in AZ and I live in CA... He has his work out there, I didn't think because of what happened we were actually an item... or seeing each other. It kept bothering me, so when he told me we were just hanging out and messing.. it bothered me, because he knows I am better then that, plus I had told him before that I like him...
Is he seriously messing with me? Or what is he thinking? This is the same guy who said likes my toes.. who is now in AZ saying he wants to see me again.. what is his deal.. he is confusing me or playing with me?
2007-07-24 14:33:17 · 11 answers · asked by Chica8411 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I don't think your listening to what he is saying ....it is what it is...He would like it to be more when ever you two do get a chance to get together but it won't be labeled....because of the distance between the two of you...this is what you make of it....he will take it or leave it...I believe he is leaving this up to you but he isn't going to offer any sort of commitment at this time.
2007-07-24 14:39:13 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mira chica!! This guy is playing with your head.....TRUST ME por favor...he's older than you and knows how to play the game...older men are professionals at that. He looks at you being so young and even though you may be smart.....he does not think otherwise because of your age. The fact the he said yall are just hanging out and messing around says enough...UNLESS....you agree then thats a diff story. The bottom line is he's playing you and you don't deserve that.....lose him!!!
2007-07-24 21:38:05 · answer #2 · answered by Ambitious27 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cool down and give it sometime. Don;t make the first move to contact him. If he does contact you, that means he is interested. If not, then you better let go...
If he would ever contact you, you should not be jumping out of the window to see him. Slowly but surely let him come to your nest and let him beg for your love.
This way you will be sure that he is really in love with you.
2007-07-24 21:41:08 · answer #3 · answered by Leonie A 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on. The guy is probably dating someone in AZ anyway.
2007-07-24 21:39:09 · answer #4 · answered by cynthia r 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on and let him make up his mind on his own.
If he does like you then he will pursue you rather than dropping hints that confuse you all the more.
2007-07-24 21:40:25 · answer #5 · answered by attyjudz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there are two of us answering this question
catlyne:ask if he likes you and if he does go on a serius date and see if he is mr. right.
shelby: okay well i think the guy is a slimeball
if he is gonna play you like that he doesnt deserve your love and devotion
2007-07-24 21:39:35 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok well im a guy and i would say the dude is scared to admitt his feelings cuz wen im afraid to tell a girl my feelings i mess with her
2007-07-24 21:38:25 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that you should wait but on that same note do your thang because u might miss out on another good guy so i would see whats he's going to do but if sombody eles asked me out i would go out.
2007-07-24 21:41:52 · answer #8 · answered by classy_tee07 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me he isn't serious find somone closer to you
2007-07-24 21:38:44 · answer #9 · answered by cabbagepatchgirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i wouldnt bother. if its that confusing now, i wonder how it will be later!
2007-07-24 21:37:02 · answer #10 · answered by janie rey 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋