I make sexual jokes to my girlfriend and I dont want it to ruin my relationship. Just wanted to know wat everyone else thought.
2007-07-24 14:03:16 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I would find it offensive.
but you never know she may
not, I suggest you ask her
if she says yeah well just stop!
2007-07-24 14:11:33 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to gauge her reaction. She might not mind, she might be offended but hide it, or she might be really obviously offended and you haven't noticed.
In my case (which of course might be totally different than your girlfriend's), I don't mind sexual innuendo stemming from someone inadvertantly saying something that comes out wrong. I don't, however, like jokes about me or other women(real or fictional) or any stupid, made up joke just for the sake of being a pervert.
2007-07-24 14:12:16 · answer #2 · answered by The Naughty Librarian 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I like to joke a lot , I am usually the one making sexual comments , but all women are different . I f your girlfriend is sensitive , some thing may bother her or hurt her feelings=( I would just ask her! That is why I try to date someone who I can joke with Ya know?
2007-07-24 14:08:17 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does she act offended? If she does than I would stop with the jokes. I personally don't mind them as long as they are not to cheesy and at inappropriate moments.
2007-07-24 14:07:29 · answer #4 · answered by Patty M 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally I think so. It's degrading. You like respect right? Well, girls do to, and I feel like when guys make those kind of jokes, they disrespect me and my gender. I'm not feminist or anything, I just think it's rude. I hope everything works out!
2007-07-24 14:08:48 · answer #5 · answered by S. Elizabeth 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it's ok sometimes but don't make it the only kind of jokes u tell if all you have for ur jokes is ha ha boob then your not really all that funny but if it's really a funny joke go for it and if she seems offended tell her your sorry
2007-07-24 14:08:29 · answer #6 · answered by Aila 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My boyfriend does but once he went too far and i got upset, although i do like it when he does. Just dont do it too often, also it depends how long you've been with her...if you're not sexually active with her she may think you're a sex addict and think its too much :P
Judge by how she reacts to them, if she smiles and turns away...she might not like it. If she keeps looking at you, it may not be too much to her.
2007-07-24 14:08:58 · answer #7 · answered by Clarity. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't like at all vulgar or sexual jokes with anyone
2007-07-24 14:06:43 · answer #8 · answered by Sunshine 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It would definitely offend me! I consider myself a feminist, so obviously I wouldn't like it. But maybe your girlfriend is different.
2007-07-24 14:08:34 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i found it offensive, but my ex made them all the time. the odd sexual joke is ok, providing that it's not too crude or discriminating against women.
2007-07-24 14:09:42 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋