Both me and my boyfriend are 16, about to be juniors in high school. I have known him for about a year and a half, but we have only officially been an item for about 4 months. I love him very much and I know he loves me, and I am just wondering about peoples opinions on, at my age, how far is too far too fast? okay that didnt really even make sense but, just like, what is too much too soon? (physically speaking)
2007-07-24 13:22:51 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I don't mean just sex, like, umm, little things before that
ahahah wow i sound like im 12 but yeah
2007-07-24 13:33:14 · update #1
you are still 16, a lot of things will still happen to your life.. kissing is ok, but you must know your limits.. 4 months is not that long, and before you do anything that intimate, make sure you know the guy very well and that he's not just playing with you.. whatever you do, think about it first, so that you won't end up in regret..
2007-08-01 06:57:11 · answer #1 · answered by sweet sexy thing 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have lots to say on this subject. FYI, I had a baby when I was 17. I am much older and a little wiser now :) When you are that age, and everyones hormones are raginf, a little can turn into a lot really fast. So, if you can, stay at first base for as long as you can, because it seems like the time it takes to go from second to third is much shorter when you are a teenager, partly because of all the pressure to have sex.
Also, one last bit of advice that I wish I had taken: Before you have sex with anyone, think about whether this is someone you would be willing to have as your childs father. Because I know it doesn't seem like it now, but it CAN happen to you.
2007-08-01 17:28:45 · answer #2 · answered by FWM 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is my best advice about having sex, if you can subtract 10 years from you life and be in single digits then you should wait to have sex. Since you are 16, then you are too young to have sex, because 10 years ago you were 6.
There is so much responsibility that goes on with having sex, and being with someone for 4 months isn't enough time to really get to know eachother. Why not see if you really love one year from now, or even 2.
2007-08-01 15:31:37 · answer #3 · answered by Miss 6 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
id say don't rush things. Expecally at the age of 16. I'm assuming your wondering on the "sex" thing. Most people i know that has had sex to young(ages 14-16) have regretted it. i also have found out that most relationships now a days in high school don't last long because of going to fast. My Biggest Advice is to Take your time and Enjoy the ride see what happens and *think things out* i hope this helps
2007-07-24 20:37:03 · answer #4 · answered by heather s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's okay to be an item, but do NOT go to far. Far is being alone with him because you will get caught up in the heat of moment and all that talk about waiting will be out the window.
2007-07-31 18:06:12 · answer #5 · answered by †Evonne† 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
someone posted an answer to another question along the same lines as yours and gave a really great answer. stop and think about every 30 yo you know, are they still with the person whom they lost their virginity too? would you be in the same situation when your 30 yo?,, think about it... also if you like this answer, do NOT give me best answer because it is not my original answer. I dont want to take credit for it, but I thought it was something great to think about.
2007-07-24 20:33:16 · answer #6 · answered by Michael H 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wait until marriage. I'm sick of whores who can't wait until the next time they get a guy in bed. Just for the record I'm not calling you a whore. I hope I haven't offended you. It's just every I meet a girl I really like, all she wants is sex. I thought it was supposed to be the other way around.
2007-07-24 20:28:37 · answer #7 · answered by NJ 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i would wait if he really likes you for you he will wait the longer you wait the better it will be and it will be and should be special I know that when my daughter turns 16 if she ever decided to get into a sexual relationship her father would lock her up and kill the guy.
2007-08-01 15:20:17 · answer #8 · answered by Janey from Louisiana 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U cant put an age on feelings. There is NO rule book to dating. That where u come in...
2007-08-01 16:06:23 · answer #9 · answered by Aila126 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
umm little thingd like that aint going to fast... but sex i think is to fast if it has not been like 5 months or soo... sooo have funn but not sex tell your ready..
2007-08-01 16:03:04 · answer #10 · answered by carharttcutie28 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋