i am 25. he is 43. he is IT and i am in HR. we didnt like each other ar first but now kind of have an odd, flirty relationship. even before we became friendly, id always catch him checking me out (and i am not the type at all to think every guy is looking at them, but it was obvious) but i thought he hated me, then everything changed last week. today, i asked him for help and he didnt know the answer to my problem, but went out of his way to help me. afterwards, he turned around and was completely blushing, face to neck! this is a 43 year old man talking about something stupid and laughing at my retarded jokes (though we were kind of close in proximity). i said something self-deprecating and he was like, " don't insinuate that i think you're not smart". it was awkward, so then i left. he is a 6'5, big, english, tough punky guy. is the blushing good or bad?
2007-07-24 13:14:23 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Didn't it make you feel good?
Isn't it nice to think that you are an attractive woman?
Isn't it great to think that a man who knows he can't have a relationship with you would still fantasize about one?
If I were a woman it would be nice to me.
What do you do about it? Nothing, office romances and romances over a 20 year age gap don't work that well, but it is nice to know that you are still a pretty woman.
2007-07-24 13:19:50 · answer #1 · answered by Dan S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep it as a crush. Trust me, speaking from experience, workplace relationships can hit the fan.
2007-07-24 13:22:36 · answer #2 · answered by Ro¥al Tree® 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's probably good but you really need to be careful. This guy is old enough to be your dad. Proceed with caution.
2007-07-24 13:19:24 · answer #3 · answered by Clueless 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like someone has a crush on you.
2007-07-24 13:19:01 · answer #4 · answered by Marie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what do you think ? thats what it is .
2007-07-24 13:16:54 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋