2007-07-24 12:41:46 · 22 answers · asked by I Wanna Know 3 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
Prior to marriage
2007-07-24 12:43:07 · update #1
it didn't in my EX-husbands case!!
2007-07-24 12:56:41 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is still true that "what you sow, you reap". If wild oats are sown, even before marriage, the harvest will affect the rest of a person's life.
This doesn't help in any way to have a "faithful" marriage. It always ends up being a lot of "baggage" from the past to carry around in the marriage.
2007-07-24 20:03:40 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
In my opinion no. I think if your wild at heart you shouldn't get married. Live your life with other people who are wild, but remember that is the path you chose, and you should never coerce mild people into marriage knowing that you are wild at heart, cause alls you will accomplish is hurting someone else. Besides, who wants to be with someone who's had numerous lovers and has a reputation for being a player? I know I wouldn't. Yuk! Disease city. I mean how would you fell if several men kept saying they had your woman or man? Wouldn't make for a very personal relationship if everyone in town had known you personally if you get my drift.
2007-07-24 19:54:03 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I really don't think so. I think the whole issue of building a productive marriage has to do with two people who are self-fulfilled and self actualized. It if being wild or sowing wild oats is apart of your life journey to become wiser, maturer and whole, than so be it. However, everyone didn't have to go that route.
2007-07-24 19:45:06 · answer #4 · answered by Andre L 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
No, but if it's habitual or obsessive it can carry over into marriage and destroy that marriage if the other spouse requires faithfulness. It can also lead to suspicion and possibly damage the trust between the married partners when one of the 'ex's' shows up, or contacts the 'wild' partner uninvitedly. Many people maintain unpublished phone numbers just to prevent this from happening.
2007-07-24 19:57:34 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I dont think so personally... if anyone has the desire to "sow the oats" before marriage they will likely still want to afterwards. Ill be a faithfull husband and I dont need to be a he-ho before Im married to do this.
2007-07-24 19:49:36 · answer #6 · answered by impossble_dream 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Playing the field doesn't help us in any aspect of life. We should instead concentrate on the things that are truly good in life that can also help our spiritual progress. Playing the field doesn't help us meet the right person any quicker. In fact, it can impede the process. The person we should meet is already here, we just need to be spiritually led to them.
2007-07-24 20:26:36 · answer #7 · answered by monte54que 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, it does not. Being faithful in a marriage is a decision which you make. Prior experience is no criteria.
2007-07-24 19:49:05 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Might for some people, but not always. Can often lead to sexual ambivolence and unfulfillment on returning to a monogamous partnership.
Over exposure to anything desensitises.
2007-07-24 19:45:13 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
It is wrong have sex before marriage.But it is alright to date people before you commit for you will find the type of person you want and the type you do not.So when you do find that special someone you will appreciate that person more for you know how hard it is to find someone like them.
2007-07-24 19:51:13 · answer #10 · answered by cecil t 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you mean before you get married as in when you were single!
The yes I think it makes you more appreciative that you found someone you want to commit too
2007-07-24 19:45:13 · answer #11 · answered by lil mama 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋