I have dated/known women who have told me--as they grabbed a certain part of my anatomy, "Never forget that this d*** is mine!" I have also known guys who have said to women they've dated/known, "Never forget that this p**** is mine!" Do you find this to be offensive, endearing or possessive?
2007-07-24 08:14:10 · 36 answers · asked by dantiuspalaptine 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I say offensive and possesive now if its during the "act" and its asked whos is it?? this could be more dirty talk never endearing when the terms are used LOL
2007-08-01 08:15:44 · answer #1 · answered by Angel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends for the most part, if its your main or one and only, then its endearing. But if its just someone to have fun with then its possessive and scary.
2007-08-01 08:15:16 · answer #2 · answered by Miss 6 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I felt dirty just reading that. It depends on the context in which it was said. If it was said affectionately, then that might be endearing. But when I read it, it sounded a bit possessive... and dirty.
2007-07-24 08:17:33 · answer #3 · answered by Alli 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Personally I find it all offensive, coming from either the male or female.
In a true, adult relationship, I don't think you need to STATE that you or your body parts belong to one another, that should be a given.
If you are doing that, it seems a little dramatic to me, and it is as if they want to show you that they are in charge, rather demeaning to me.
2007-07-24 08:28:48 · answer #4 · answered by ♥ ♥Be Happi♥ ♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Very offensive and possessive. Very bad. If a guy said that to me, I would slap him, kick him where it hurts and walk out of his life. That's just horrible...
2007-07-24 08:18:50 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I find it is very offensive, and possessive. Never let anyone tell you what is theres. Everything you have is yours, and yours alone since birth. Remind them of that.
2007-07-24 08:25:01 · answer #6 · answered by LAURA B 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I find it disgusting, you cannot OWN another person nor can you posses a part of their anatomy. If someone says that to another person then they have no self respect or self confidence. If you have to tell someone that they belong to you then you aren't confident enough in your self or the relationship.
2007-07-24 08:18:59 · answer #7 · answered by Scooter Girl 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Over the top possessiveness.
2007-07-24 08:22:42 · answer #8 · answered by Steph 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's definetly possesive, but it depends in which situation is being said, sometimes is pretty hot to hear that from the guy that u like while doing it, if u know what Im saying..lol
2007-07-24 08:24:45 · answer #9 · answered by Haidee 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
they couldve been joking or they could be a little possessive. it depends on how it was said. but if a guy said that to me me joking or not i would let them know straight up that they dont own a damn thang on me and they best not get it twisted!
2007-07-24 08:22:01 · answer #10 · answered by suthrndiva1488 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋