OK so I help out this girl I have a crush on with 200 dollars, for medical bills. I'm always there for her and always tell her I care about her. When we're finally about to go on a date, she stands me up to go out with an other guy. Then lies to me saying she needed to be with her sister. Yes i do know for a fact she was lying. Then she tells her friends she doesn't see me like that, and I could only be her friend. She's always going for the a@@holes whom kick her a@@ and just use her. Am I stuck, am I a pushover, or am I just to damn nice?
2007-07-24 08:02:30 · 11 answers · asked by buu 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You sound like a great guy. Unfortunatly, she sounds like an idiot to pass up a guy like you. Or, she is just using your for money, stuff, etc.
Dont waste your time on her. If she doesnt like you like that, then why bother. Go out there and find a girl who is crazy about you and is worth all your kindness.
2007-07-24 08:20:51 · answer #1 · answered by sweetblueyes 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
None of the above. The problem is not whether or not you're a pushover or too nice. The problem is that you're going after the wrong kind of girls. So you're a nice guy? Well, somewhere out there is a nice girl looking for just that. Obviously the chick you've developed a crush on is not looking for a guy like you. Let her go and move on with your life.
2007-07-24 08:08:55 · answer #2 · answered by Mr. Taco 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I am afraid that alot of women have this bad habit of being mean/abusive to guys who will stand by them and be dedicated to their needs, while falling head, over heels for the ******* in the world. Do these women need to be treated sickly or what?
2007-07-24 08:35:08 · answer #3 · answered by Sirius70 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are a nice guy. leave that liar girl. Lying is the worst attribute if it is ever found in a relationship, nothing will be good. Look for a nice girl because you deserve the best.
2007-07-24 08:13:02 · answer #4 · answered by Hope Ray 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
god damnit. just don't even bother. i learned the hard way and wasted a couple of years on this *****. don't get me wrong, i think the friendship's cool and the girl's probably really cool also. but you're a tool. you're there when she needs you, but she wont hesitate to put you away when she finds somene else. i used to think that staying friends would be good b/c at least i'd get to talk to her, but it's just so damn hard and frustrating. just dont even bother b/c it's probably not worth it...
2007-07-24 08:08:35 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
your stuck in the friend zone, you'll never get out, you probably won't even get your 200 bucks back if it was even for medical bills, move on man, not worth the time
2007-07-24 08:06:54 · answer #6 · answered by renegadechef9_0 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Your just in a bad position right now. She knows you like her, but she doesn't like you in that respect. Your going to have to move on.
2007-07-24 08:06:07 · answer #7 · answered by kyryliw 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Do not chase her. If she really likes you, she'll tell you. If she does not, she'll ignore you. Stop chasing her. No point to it anymore. Your a pushover for her.
2007-07-24 08:08:34 · answer #8 · answered by Camille 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You are all three of these things. Tell her you want your money back today.
2007-07-24 08:10:15 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
SHE IS NOT YOUR FRIEND! Forget it happened and pay her no more attention. Move on.
2007-07-24 08:10:08 · answer #10 · answered by Jerry 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋