Ok I've posted questions about me still having feelings for my ex and I know I shouldnt. People have told me to move on. I sort of have already....I've been talking to 2 guys. And I'm gonna say this right now, I am NOT gonna make the same mistake I did with my ex.
One of the guys I've been talking to got out of a relationship not too long after I did. He told me that he "likes" me but doesnt want to get into another relationship just yet. He'd rather be friends. The other guy I've been talking to has flaked on me twice. But he keeps telling me that he wants to be with me. I know right now that i'm tired of being flaked on by the second one even though he tells me that it wont happen again. I dont know what to do. Should I wait for the first one? Should I give the second one last chance? Should I just find someone else?
2007-07-24 06:57:41 · 4 answers · asked by whisper_in_the_wind1186 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's time to go hang with the girlfriends for a while.
You're pushing too hard, sit down , relax and see what comes up.
2007-07-24 07:04:09 · answer #1 · answered by Sophie B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Here's what I don't understand: Why do you have to "decide" about either one of these people? When you say you've been "talking to" them, do you mean online? If so, you don't even know them, whether they are honest or not. But I would say if someone is flaky online, then stop the communication right there and move on.
2007-07-24 07:03:08 · answer #2 · answered by Nefertiti 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think before you move into a new relationship you should develop a friendship first anyway. So, take the first guy for what it is. Lose the second guy and meet two more new guys. :)
2007-07-24 07:14:22 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you've given the second one enough chances. If you like the first guy, give it time..just don't blind yourself in case you happen to meet someone else that you might like.
2007-07-24 07:01:21 · answer #4 · answered by The Seeker 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋