Long story short....met a girl that is not from here and would be leaving in about 4 wks...been spending a lot time together...she is a virgin and wants to wait until she gets married....but lately she has been given me signs that she wants to do it.....we sleep in the same house but different rooms......she wants me so bad!!! I push her away and told her NO but don't know how much longer I can keep that up! Should I have sex with her???
2007-07-24 05:17:50 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you see a future with her? The dont have sex. She'll be impressed by the way you managed to keep her a virgin(if she REAALLY is one).
If you dont see a future with her... well...
2007-07-24 05:20:57 · answer #1 · answered by Menon R 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If she's already made the decision that she wants to wait for marriage, then I would stay away. If you find that staying away is too hard to handle, confront her about it. All you have to do is say something like, "I've been noticing that you've been a little more friendly lately." See what she says. What ever you do, let her make the decision. Let her know that you won't think of her any less if she doesn't want to have sex. Even though she may want you now, when she goes back home, she might regret it.
2007-07-24 05:25:39 · answer #2 · answered by amrmusicqueen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I bet your a sex crazy person but if you should respect her choice to wait . Everyone is different but from what you are saying she seems like she's a "good girl". Sorry but that's the truth.Just be her friend and if you guys are meant to be together then you will find a way to be together. Keep in contact with her when she goes home.
2007-07-24 05:24:32 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should talk it over with her. Virgins are really weird about this mainly because they haven't had sex yet. So its always on their mind. Be sure to sit her down and ask her about it while she's not turned on. If she tells you she wants to do it then go for it, if she says she still wants to wait keep your self under control. Besides there's plenty of stuff to do that doesn't involve sticking in the dick.
Also when talking remember to tell her she's going to be leaving so theirs basically no chance on both of you getting hitched.
2007-07-24 05:23:43 · answer #4 · answered by Advice4U 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Simply when she is doing this say hay I thought you were waiting! See what she says and then decide. How old is she? She might not know what she is doing so to speak. She might now know how to express these feelings any other way. Or maybe she's a straight up tease. The fact you waited this long puts you above most, keep it up and give her her own. Or talk. Good Luck Kim
2007-07-24 05:22:38 · answer #5 · answered by KIMBUR 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DON'T have sex with her! Do NOT take advantage of her feelings. Be an honorable guy and remind her of her values. She wants to wait for marriage, and even if she FEELS like having sex with you, if she actually did it, she would regret it more than you'll EVER understand. She's gonna be leaving in 4 weeks. Just keep your pants on.
2007-07-24 05:23:45 · answer #6 · answered by HollywoodHousewife♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. As much as she says she's ready to have sex she's not, she might be tempting you or might just want to make you happy but that's not the way to do that. Respect her decision and don't fall into that, you both would feel bad in the end.
2007-07-24 05:23:37 · answer #7 · answered by In love with life 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The first love is the best. Don't mess it up. If you want a relationship, let her know and you'll bother figure out if it can be done. Otherwise leave her alone. Don't ruin her first one. You'll have taken your first step toward knowing what love is and maturity, because if you never learn, life is a.... well no fun if you don't. Don't mess with love.
2007-07-24 05:26:10 · answer #8 · answered by hb12 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yep go for it, make the move - if she wants to wait to have sex til she's married then let her make that decision - but if she is giving you the signals then at least give it a try!
but remember no means no :)
2007-07-24 05:24:49 · answer #9 · answered by Ilikepinepple 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i do the sam thing sometimes.
usually it's the heat of the moment.
don't go all the way. like no getting undressed or anything.
but go to like secound base or whatev.
intemently touch and makeout alot.
go far enough so the your both satisfied but not fully and so you don't both regret it later on.
2007-07-24 05:24:29 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋