this guy i have reconnected with recently (who i have known for 5 years now) is always asking me to stay over his house. He knows Im a virgin, and I won't give it up that easily. He hasn't told me he's attracted to me, but I can tell he is by the way he always wants to get pysical with me. Lately, he has been the one to call me more ofter, where as before I was the one calling. (I stopped calling as often b/c he told me he was talking to other girls too but not sleeping with then). What does he want from me exactly
2007-07-24 05:12:13 · 7 answers · asked by thatwasme_then87 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
we had gone to a party of my cousins and i found out my ex boyfirend was there also. I didnt know that they knew eachother until he told me. I had told him that the guy he pointed out was my ex. I had said it again without thinking and he said, "I KNOW." Like he was mad or irritated by it. I noticed that he talked with everyone there except my ex.
2007-07-24 05:12:35 · update #1
No one will EVER know exactly what he is thinking, but in the situation you described he may be after you because you have presented him with a pursuit of the unattainable.
Once you give him what he wants (probably sex) then the chase will be over & he will set his sights on a new quarry.
Not sure, but just one possibility for you to consider. :-)
2007-07-24 05:20:06 · answer #1 · answered by No More 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh, this may hurt but he like you...he definitely wants to have sex with you (men, enough said) but I don't think he LIKES you in the way that he may want you to...Man, I wish I had enough time to break this down but if he doesn't pay attention to you until you leave him alone, then you're not the #1 thing on his mind---in which you should be. I wouldn't place myself with him, staying over and such--I don't think that's a good idea--not yet anyway..i don't see him being a positive thing in your life...sorry, sad but true...
2007-07-24 05:17:31 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he just wants to get close to you? You know he likes you.
Though im disturbed by the fact that you stopped 'calling as often b/c he told me he was talking to other girls too but not sleeping with them'. I mean HUH? whats your point. he clearly likes you by telling you he is not sleeping around with other girls. What I want to know, is what are YOU really thinking? Are you jealous? do you like him too?
2007-07-24 05:17:39 · answer #3 · answered by Menon R 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's not dating you, he's not made a commitment with you, he's only asked you over to his house. I think his intentions are quite clear...he wants to sleep with you and that's it.
If you are still in doubt, ask him what his intentions are.
2007-07-24 05:16:31 · answer #4 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well i think that he likes you but not enough to lovew you i think that he just wants to have sex but he might love you more after you all do it you know what im sayin lol well good luck y gont give in to easly kk have funn with it
2007-07-24 05:18:31 · answer #5 · answered by retroyoungster 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He wants for you to stay at his house with him. Then what? You will get used.
2007-07-24 05:17:06 · answer #6 · answered by smileytexas 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he wants sex and only sex from u!!!!...
2007-07-24 05:16:48 · answer #7 · answered by Krish 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋