Men afraid to ask you out, should I ask them? how can I ask guys out, cos im sick of waiting?

Question

I kinda think its the guys role to ask the girl out. Some guys ive liked in the past, showed interest, taking deep breaths to try to ask me out but then chickened out. I've been told its because im better looking than them, that means nothing to me at all. Im tired waiting, so in the future when I meet someone I like, what can I say guys, im shy already, im looking for men's advice?

Answer 1

just start a conversation with the guy and then say do you have any plans for Saturday after noon, if his answer is no,then you ask, would you like to go for a walk in the park or out for coffee and see where it goes from there staring a relationship with someone is not rocket science.

Answer 2

It's normal for women to ask out men...

Matter of fact most of the time it the chick who makes the first move with me.

I usually get the "hints" that I should ask her out. Which is really basically "hey, are you going to ask me out?(flirtish way)" Even though I'm the one who asked it's still her who did almost all the work. So in a sense she is the one who asked me out.

Answer 3

ask them im rly good mates wid this boy he like mah mate and she liked him but they wouldentr ask each other out it went on for about a month then i just each one the other one asked them out haha bow there bin going out 4 2 months <3 ask him or if you tuu shy say tuu him i had a dream that me nd yewh went out if he says eww or something like that go ii kno thats what i 4t but if his like kewl go i would go out wid yewh ya no .. c what he says if it back fires go i was only joking if not ask him out or wate 4 him tuu say the same and say wanna give it a go then ?x hope this helps ally x

Answer 4

Do not ask them out. That is a turn off to most. But hint hint hint that you could be a fun date.