i am see this girl and she said the first night that she likes it when a guy treats her badly, what gives??
2007-07-24 03:33:55 · 12 answers · asked by towsrus23 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i agree with you man but girls do go for nice guys but then they think they can find someone better and later they realize the nice guy was the best person they ever had! If you want to have any success with women while still being the nice guy then you just have to be confident and a little bit mysterious. Keep the women on their toes by making them want more. Its ok to be a little bad now and then but the key thing is that you want to stay a nice guy. I keep thinking all the girls forget about the nice guys but if you really show women you have the best traits of both sides then it gives you much more appeal
2007-07-24 03:48:39 · answer #1 · answered by Ryan S 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I prefer a nice guy because he'll have good morals and treat me with the upmost respect. However there are some down falls of the nice guy. They can be possesive, too clingy and fall in love too quickly (my experience and opinion). I still would be with a good and nice guy any day and work out those kinks. As far a the bad boys, you will get the total exact opposite.
2007-07-24 10:44:16 · answer #2 · answered by nika 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on how you define "nice guys" Most of my friends that ask this question are pushovers for the girls and the girls think they are wimps. Most girls wants a man that isn't a pushover and isn't going to smother them. Also just like men, girls want a challenge. The "bad guy" is normally a lot more of a challenge to get then the "nice guy pushover." If you find yourself always listening to a girls problems and her crying on her shoulder then your being a friend, not a lover. Being a lover means there has to be some spice and hottness. Now there are girls that don't fit this but overall it's what's going on. imo
2007-07-24 10:40:17 · answer #3 · answered by scooter427 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women are gluttons for punishment. We fall for bad guys all the time knowing full well that they are gonna step all over us and break our hearts in the process. We may go out with a nice guy while we are getting over a bad boy, but you know as soon as one of those comes walking by and giving us the eye, we have dumped that nice guy and gone off in pursuit of trying to tame another wild one. Not all women do that, so maybe you should broaden your horizons al little.
2007-07-24 10:42:34 · answer #4 · answered by ♥Instantkarma♥♫ 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Maybe you are dating 'bad girl' types who like 'bad guys'. All the women I know would much prefer a good man and be treated with respect and kindness.
2007-07-24 10:41:20 · answer #5 · answered by Annie 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ah its nuthing personal seriously!! for sum odd old reason alot of girls go for that bad boy type dont know y. well in my opinion and it is just mines when u hav that softer type it is just shows a sign of weakness to a woman and that isnt appealing as the bad boy type.its like how men look at women they like the slutty types and its cool to a certain degree but its not a challenge to them after sum time. its not u !!!! i know it doesn't make sense but hav u ever heard that ole saying nice guys always finish last.
2007-07-24 10:42:31 · answer #6 · answered by sean a 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girls ages teens to like 26,27 will go with bad guys. After that they look for the nicer guys. It just works this way. I'm a guy so I don't understand why it works this way, but it does.
2007-07-24 10:40:23 · answer #7 · answered by Josh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We're weird creatures. We eventually settle down with a nice boy, though, if we're not totally clueless and have learned from past experiences.
2007-07-24 10:39:17 · answer #8 · answered by Shayna 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girls fall for nice guys fater they get tired of the bad boys burning them too many times
2007-07-24 10:36:37 · answer #9 · answered by Me 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
cause most nice guys r 2 nice i love bad boys
2007-07-24 10:37:36 · answer #10 · answered by goodies make the boys jump on it 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋