I am still friends with my ex boyfriend ..
I don’t mean very close friend but we call time to time.. Have some coffee .. Talk about his relations.. He take my sun to move some times .Just normal stuff ..
I see it as normal relation between two people, who even ended relationship but keep respect to each anther.
The problem is NOW that my new boyfriend don’t like that at all /hate it!/.
Few days ago I told him that I am going to have a coffee with my ex..
And he gets very “unhappy” if U know what I mean. Told me that I am very egoistic and don’t take care what he feels. I love him a lot and really don’t want to hurt him.
But it seems for me like is controlling me ..
Is it so terrible to be friend with Ur Ex ???
2007-07-23 22:31:19 · 13 answers · asked by awg 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If both your ex and you and have no more feelings for each other , logically, it should be okay.
As you know very well, emotions can't be logical..so ask yourself this:
If your current boyfriend is doing the same things with his ex-gf (the things you are doing with your ex now), how would you feel? Would you be jealous? If you do, how would you like him to act?
*Also, I have a question..you mentioned a son? Is your ex the father? If so, then it's a different matter altogether. Coz you need to stay in touch as the child's parents.
2007-07-23 22:37:21 · answer #1 · answered by ginandvodka 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no it not a problem to be friends with your x boyfriend. However, you do have understand new boy friends feeling. A person that was where he is now is now may cause him lose his relationship is real fear.If is nothing for him to fear maybe he should a part mix with x or friend. offer to take with or give choice to go with you out respect for him.
2007-07-23 22:41:26 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that he is welcome to join you if he likes. I have always been friends with my exs. I have introduced them to my ne bfs and some of them have become best buddies.
lol One time I went to a party and there were 3 of my ex bfs and my bf there all at the same time. They all got along just fine.
2007-07-23 22:35:05 · answer #3 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you boyfriend has a self-esteem issue. Did you try inviting him along a couple of times?
2007-07-23 22:34:22 · answer #4 · answered by I know EVERYTHING! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's considered one of "no-no" regulations of friendship. Going out alongside with your buddy's ex without her permission is a speedy and ordinary thank you to break a friendship immediately. So i don't propose doing that in case you have not asked if she's pleased with it. in view that she in basic terms broke up along with her boyfriend, you ought to not be questioning approximately going after him, you ought to be there to your buddy. She may well be entering into the direction of the after-trauma of the wear and tear-up even nonetheless she became into the only which ended it. There ought to be a clarification why she broke up with the guy suitable? became into he an insensitive jerk? Or became into she in basic terms tired of him? in case you desire to ask the guy out, anticipate a pair of weeks and get your buddy's permission first in case you nonetheless desire to stay pals along with her. If the boy is extra significant than your friendship, then issues won't go so nicely between you and her. If she isn't delicate with you going out along with her ex, then you definately ought to appreciate her needs... in case you may not preserve it and additionally you relatively need to go out with him, your friendship will go down the drain ultimately.
2016-10-09 08:08:00 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OF COURSE IT IS OKAY!! in fact, its great that you are friends with your ex because that shows that you guys aren't mad at each other anymore. Just tell your boyfriend that you guys are just friends.
2007-07-23 22:38:48 · answer #6 · answered by Charkal :D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No,its not very okay my dear....
Plss don't mind but in my views if you are loving someone by your heart,then you would automatically hate yours ex.
Again I will say don't mind.if your present lover refuses you not to go to him,after that you are going then you are cheating both the men. You are not in love
2007-07-23 22:43:07 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
its not terrible to be friends with ur ex. its just not a good idea to be going out with ur ex when you have someone else.. if u were single, thatd be perfectly fine.
many relationships have issues with exes... its best if you dont hang out with ur ex for now.. or as long as your with someone else.
2007-07-23 22:34:11 · answer #8 · answered by Concerned 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yeah there is no harm in being a friend to your ex...
But watch before you step further...
Good Luck...!!!
2007-07-23 22:34:13 · answer #9 · answered by Nimesh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im friends with my ex...
it strikes me as very odd that your boyfriend should be allowed to dictate who your friends are.
2007-07-23 22:34:41 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋